I know the feeling...
That is probably my biggest "pet peeve" when it comes to my Mustang.
I'm unaccustomed to having to be "on guard" all of the time.
I try to do my best and things just keep happening to my car.
Luckily, I also have an old truck that is more likely to give out door dings and such, than recieve them.
But. SWEET MARY, MOTHER OF JESUS!!?!??!!!
Will it ever end? The damn thing has been in the body shop a lot in the short time that I've owned it...
For me, a brand new vehicle wouldn't be the answer.
Maybe you just need another, not-so-nice cosmetically, good running, vehicle to use as a daily driver.
And take a rest from the torture chamber...