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Old 08-02-2003, 09:11 PM   #1
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girlfriend broke up with me tonight...

she said it was her not me she said i was perfect. she told me that she wasnt feeling the spark between us like she used to and that she needed "time to find herself" basically from what i could figure.

i seriously never cried so much in my life.

goodbye kiss and now here i am.

this sucks so much...i have no idea what to do now. just thought i'd tell someone


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awww man, iam sorry.
Its all good tho, you'll find osmeone better.
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I'm sorry dude
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thanks guys...

but i love her to death. it hurts so bad inside now. i wish she would call me and say she made a mistake and she wants me back right now.

spend that much time with a girl and she leaves on a whim.

****.
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That happened to my friend a couple weeks ago. She needed a month apart. Then she took all "their" money out of savings. And had three guys and a sheriff break into his house to retrieve "their" things. Hope it goes better for you!
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in my experience... "it's not you, it's me" means that she's found someone else

but look at the bright side, at least she didn't cheat on you

**** that #####... move on, and let her play catch up

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the biggest tear in my heart just happened a few minutes ago...

wehn i left her house after the whole thing we said "i love you" about a million times...

so just before i get off the phone i tell her i love her and she starts crying, i say whats the matter? she says "nothing' then i say it again and she crys more. i said 'why cant you say it?" she said she doesnt know.

so things just took a worse step backwards.

guess theres no more chances left here ...


i'm really sick right now. 2.5 years and she just cant say she loves me?

i'm going out for a late drive now, hope i get back w/out a ticket or a crash cuz i'm really just devastated right now.
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nah, don't drive like that. it puts others in danger, not just you
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nah, don't drive like that. it puts others in danger, not just you
i'm just in a very sick mood right now... and theres lots of open roads out here so i wont put anyone in danger... just me like that matters.
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I agree. Go drive. I get really pissed off sometimes and that's the only thing that sets stuff right. Good luck, man.
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Old 08-02-2003, 11:02 PM   #11
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I say you should give it some time syn. My girlfriend gave me the same crap while we were at college a year ago. About a week later she came crawling back practicly begging me to take her back. She was in tears and saying how she had a rough week and she had issues with herself and she just took it out on me and bla bla bla. Since I was such a pushover I took her back and boy was the make-up sex great
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Old 08-02-2003, 11:22 PM   #12
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Syn, man I am sorry I know what you mean but hey if you need anything we can get some chicks here in indy, I will meet ya 1/2 way!! haha hope you dont get into trouble tonight.!
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Well just stay friedns, never know what will happen next.
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Well just stay friedns, never know what will happen next.
hehe thats right.. my ex called me up last night to come over hehehe 8)
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SEE, theres alwaysa bright side.
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Old 08-03-2003, 01:42 AM   #16
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synister,

i'm only opening up this much online because i really do have something to contribute. i was in a depression for 1 1/2 years when my girlfriend went from almost becoming my fiance, to completely and totally ignoring me, for reasons i will never know for sure. i've been humiliated in a hospital i was stuck in, i was so ****ed up. i let myself go into a downward spiral that led to not wanting to live.

you must keep your head up the best you can. it sucks now, that much i won't deny. also, it will be months, maybe years before you are completely over her. in a way, you may never be over her. accept this, and try to realize that every day brings a new chance to do something you've never done before. i would advise hanging out with your girl friends. they supported me and made me forget for moments that i was in my own hell.

my good friend lauren passed away two weeks ago. with shame, i admit that my girlfriend breaking up with me hit me harder than my friend's actual death. it hurts me just to write that. i am a ****ty person to even think that, but it is what i feel and i won't deny it.

do yourself a favor in the longrun. confront your feelings in the next weeks and try to brush this off so that you won't spoil your chance with another lucky girl.
my thoughts will be with you...

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Well just stay friedns, never know what will happen next.
i don't mean to call you out on this, but most people that have been in a serious relationship before agree that this is not possible, at least not for many weeks or months.

if you were to be friends with her now, synister, you will be wanting to be bf /gf with her, and drive yourself mad thinking of ways to win her back. in fact, you'd probably succeed before she'd break your heart again by breaking up with you yet again. give yourself time to adjust to being single again. if she really cares for you, she will be around when you've both healed enough to attempt a friendship. she is most likely almos tas sad as you are right now, but i don't know the situation.
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Old 08-03-2003, 12:21 PM   #18
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Syn, I have been there before and been through the same pain. My ex left me after 27 months and that was about a year and a half ago. All I can say is that you have to move on. I tried to change her mind for the first two months and we told each other we would remain friends. Neither worked out that way. We talk from time to time, but we don't hang out as friends like we did before we started dating. I can honestly say that I didn't get over her until 4 months ago when I met someone else. All I can tell you is that it gets easier to deal with in time and there are lots of fish in the sea. But when I think back on it, I think I drove her away by trying over and over again to get her to change her mind. If it is really meant to be between you two, let her have her space to think and if she does want you back, she will find you. I feel your pain and just stay busy with other things, like your stang, it will help you keep your mind off of it.

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thanks so much for everything guys... all your words have really helped put things in perspective. really thanks alot.

well here's more to the story,

she has been hanging out with her friend elva alot mor recently and this girl is a complete #####. she broke up with her boyfriend of 2 years a couple of months ago and i think that influenced my girl. now they go out constantly and i never say anything.

for example...

she tore out my heart again today...

she tells me to call her and i do, where is she??? AT THE ****ING MALL with her friend ELVA. #### that bull****. shes acting like nothing happened yesterday and saying how she cant act sad in the mall. how ****ing gay is that? she can turn her emotions on and off when shes at home and when shes at the mall!?!??!?!?!?!?

wtf.

i'm not only sad i'm pissed.

and now she doesnt even say "i love you" before we hang up.

this completely sucks and hurts...it felt like she didnt even care about the 2 1/2 years i dedicated to her.
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np, i think we've all went throught that before.
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dude, it will get better..
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Old 08-03-2003, 03:29 PM   #22
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just hold your head high and try to find some positive people to be around, and do things you enjoy... We all have had our hearts broken and stomped on through out our lives... but thats how you learn to judge people and know how to react in this situations as you can tell that we all have, that have responded to you.

It'll be ok man, but will definitely leave a scar for some time as it sounds.

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scars are here, i'm just trying to heal the wounds that are here now



you know the worst thing?



tomorrow (august 4th) is my 22nd birthday... she broke up with me last time 4 days before my 20th birthday...

un believable.

another lonely *** birthday cuz its a Monday and i have to work all day then come home to sit here and realize how much life is just a revolving kick in the nuts 99% of the time.

yay me.

thanks for all the advicea nd words of advice all - it does help the healing reading ****
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I'll order you a stripper for your b-day to make you feel better.
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Now coming from a woman's point of view........Women are ****ed up most of the time, we don't know what we want until it's gone and we want what our friends have. After a while hanging out with this friend of her's she'll relize that the single life and her friend aren't all that........ And yes I would say alot of this came from her now single friend.

Hang in there, don't call her if she really want's to talk to you she'll call you, not this "oh call me tomorrow" that's just her keeping her claws in you. Make her call you make her want you by making yourself unavailable to her........

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Now coming from a woman's point of view........Women are ****ed up most of the time, we don't know what we want until it's gone and we want what our friends have. After a while hanging out with this friend of her's she'll relize that the single life and her friend aren't all that........ And yes I would say alot of this came from her now single friend.

Hang in there, don't call her if she really want's to talk to you she'll call you, not this "oh call me tomorrow" that's just her keeping her claws in you. Make her call you make her want you by making yourself unavailable to her........

Good luck
excellent idea angel...thanks for the girl perspective, i hope that happens here...
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I'll order you a stripper for your b-day to make you feel better.
werd - i'm on the southside of chicago so mail me 10 bucks for a ###### lol
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lol 10 bucks isnt gonna get you a good one w/o any diseases.
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Hey you can possibly get a buy it now on ebay of a blow up doll if you really need to let off some steam and some other things...
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Hey you can possibly get a buy it now on ebay of a blow up doll if you really need to let off some steam and some other things...
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Hey you can possibly get a buy it now on ebay of a blow up doll if you really need to let off some steam and some other things...
naw i'm not that desperate. just depressed



she is juts toying wiht my emotions tonight. this morning i talked to her and she was acting like nothing happened and getting an attitude...this afternoon she calls me and was crying the whole time cuz i ackted like nothing was bothering me and i was ok...now 5 minutes ago she told me to call her at 930 so i did and she's acting like she did this morning


**** this man. she's just trying to #### with my head.
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thats what girls do to us!!!!!! and they will tell you that I am right. :
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thats what girls do to us!!!!!! and they will tell you that I am right. :
why do they purposly do #### like that
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she just wants to see how far she can take it, she wants to be able to see if you will play her game. Do as Angel said earlier and seeif she really wants to be your g/f or if she just wants to play both sides of the fence.
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dude thats all the far i can help ya i am going for a drive myself, Girls SUCK, Work SUCKS, so F-it. Syn. happy b-day ... go to a bar and see some tits..
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