This thread/story/whatever reminds me of a movie with a similar predicament.
If you want to rent it sometime it is called "The Crying Game"
It is very shocking, the guy in that movie finds out in a much harder way than Dan's friend is.
Dan's friend should call his shemale over some time to watch a movie with him, guess which one it should be
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