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Old 09-13-2005, 11:58 PM   #1
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winning a girl back...input?

i know many of you think ex-girlfriend re-dating is bad, but put that aside and just give advice if it were a first-time thing or if it were a good idea

she likes a new guy...sorta. doesn't know him well enough.

but also likes me. but says to not act on my emotions until after we hang out again at the end of the month for a long weekend as friends. so i have to hang out with her just as 2 friends hangin out.

she is confused. and she said she'll know for sure about me after our long weekend as friends.

so what could i do to help my case? cuz im afraid i'll accidently kiss her or something without thinking...and totally screw up.
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run far far away.

a confused woman is a dangerous woman.

or lay down the law, tell her its either him or you and you want to know now or its over for good.
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show interest but dont go on to heavy.. make her want you.
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run far far away.

a confused woman is a dangerous woman.

or lay down the law, tell her its either him or you and you want to know now or its over for good.
:yup: :yup:
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i definately like wiarumas's answer better lol.

i think i'll go with that and if she likes me she'll take me back.
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run far far away.

a confused woman is a dangerous woman.

or lay down the law, tell her its either him or you and you want to know now or its over for good.
OMG Please listen to this guy!
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My ex fiancee was a confused girl.

Couldn't be happier to have her outta my ****ing life. Now she's ruined her own life.

Good ridance.
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we'll see. i'm gonna post up bout it after i see her. w00t.
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My idea is tell her you'll go just as friends, then try to get into her pants. Hey, if you've been there before [/assumption] it shouldn't be hard to do it again.

And when she says she just wants to hang out as friends, she wants to see if you just want to hang out as friends.
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ya we're agreed to meet as friends...and i may try to bring some romance into it..
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Dude, this is a challenge. It's not what she says it is, it never is.
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My ex fiancee was a confused girl.

Couldn't be happier to have her outta my ****ing life. Now she's ruined her own life.

Good ridance.
holy crap dude, i thought youre like 18ish. way too young to be thinking of the M word. even if the L word is strong with the relationship, still to young.
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holy crap dude, i thought youre like 18ish. way too young to be thinking of the M word. even if the L word is strong with the relationship, still to young.
LMAO hes like 23 I think......yeah 23, and that happend a couple years ago lol
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ah, oh yeah, you two are like brothers aint ya?
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You can say that
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You can say that
You can say that?

Yes we are brothers, he's 19 I'm 23.

This happened back two or three years ago. I agree people under 21 don't know the real meaning of the L word. Just get married, everything will end fine they all think. Wrong, a lot of people need some growing up to do before considering ever ever ever EVER getting married. You need a lot of experience in the L department and the relationship department.
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... lay down the law, tell her its either him or you and you want to know now or its over for good.
^ do that , there is no "just friends" after a relationship
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don't make urself too available...we like what we can't have....its a curse

i know in my case when a guy makes every effort to get with me, it bugs me and i just leave it alone...but when i see that he might be pulling away, it makes me want him more

(i know i know that sounds terrible, but its true)
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^OMG guys we have found the holy grail: a girl that is willing to share the female secret evil ways!!!!
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don't make urself too available...we like what we can't have....its a curse

i know in my case when a guy makes every effort to get with me, it bugs me and i just leave it alone...but when i see that he might be pulling away, it makes me want him more

(i know i know that sounds terrible, but its true)
yep.. so true.. they love things they cant get.. thats why stereotypically they go for the ********. this is why its tricky.. because you want her to want you and you have to somewhat persue her.. but at the same time you cant let her know that you really want her and trying to persue her. its a mind game basically... or a game of poker.. a poker face kinda. where you are in the game, you have a hand, not folding, but you gotta hide your intentions. i say ask her out.. show her a blast.. dont call her for 3 days.. call her again, say you want to hang out again cuz last time was fun.. 2nd time.. maybe move in for the kill. dont be that sweet, dont act super nice, but at the same time be a gentleman with confidence. be alittle flirty but dont come on too strong.. make her feel like she is underneath you. girls go for guys with the alpha male traits. this doesnt mean bash her and put her down.. just make her feel like she is following you around.. you wear the daddy pants..
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dont sink too much time into it

theres no garentee that itll work out, you put some effort in, get your hopes up, and it doesnt work out, its painful

look at it like this...its like buying a 100 dollar car, and investing all kinds of money into the body without trying to start the car...car doesnt start, you invested money into a clunker that youll probably have to get rid of, if it does start, you wont know how long itll fun
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Listen To Meteorachick Advice It really works I had one of sisters tell me the same thing
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Go into it as just friends. Make her come back to you. If you try to get her back, you are just going to make her feel like she is the greatest and she will not come back because she knows she has power over you. Keep it simple. Stay friends. If there is something to be had, make her make the move.

In the mean time, find someone else.
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definitely... even if you want her back.. find someone else.. it will work to your advantage lol
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definitely... even if you want her back.. find someone else.. it will work to your advantage lol
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Hell Ya !!!! poon on the side All those college hotties need some attention too:banana2:
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Everybody except Brandon is right. Be a joking *******, be a jackass, make fun of her, be interested and move on it if you can, but don't be annoying.

And yes, there is just friends after a relationship. I personally dated 2 different girls for over 9 months (diff times, lol) and now I am good friends with both. It took a couple years to be friends again, but we are good now.
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this stuff is waaay too complicated, lol.
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Yes, yes it is.
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Haha, welcome to the wonderful world of girls.

It's like those crab fishers. Their job sucks, but the reward is oh so sweet.
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what do I know, I can't understand teh females.
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Haha, welcome to the wonderful world of girls.

It's like those crab fishers. Their job sucks, but the reward is oh so sweet.
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