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Old 06-11-2006, 02:58 PM   #1
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These last two weeks have been hell for me and my family and it continues.

My Father, who is diabetic, had stents put in to increase his blood flow to his kidneys. Well, then they discovered he has a tumor on his kidney and the stent let loose the toxins from the cancer into his body. He has lost over 50 lbs over the last 4 weeks.

The doctor called me last week and besides being a prick, told me that my Dad has only a few months left. My sister, who is religious is freaking out, and doing things at church with olive oil etc. No Idea.

Right now, I don't care about Mustangs, etc. I know I have some friends here, and who knows, maybe a prayer will help out. I am trying to get home and may be gone for a while. It really sucks. When I saw him 6 months ago, when I went home because my Mom had a stroke, he looked great for being 76 years old. Now I am afraid to see him waisting away and am scared.

Well, I am trying to keep myself together. I would appreciate a few prayers for him, if not to get better, then to pass without pain. It is hard to loose ones Dad.
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hey yo.. we're here for you. I've had many of these problems with my family at times as well, and I know how much it means to have friends standing with you when you're havin a tough time. I believe that I speak for all of us in that we'll be thinking and praying for you. Stay strong man.. we're with you.

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Old 06-11-2006, 03:45 PM   #3
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I said it before but I will say it again, I am truly sorry for the pain you are going through

I hope so much everything works out in a way that will help you deal with this as easy as it can be dealt with.
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It sounds dumb, but we're here for ya man. My prayers are with you and your family.
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that really sucks... I lost my grandpa last summer to cancer. He was diagnosed with it, and 3 days later, was dead. They skipped straight to stage 4, terminal cancer. He had time to get a blanket from Hospice, and was gone. I helped him to the hospital 1 day before he died... little did we know he wouldn't leave the hospital that time.

We will all be here for you man.
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We will all be here for you man.
Ditto, keep your chin up.
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Hang Tough !!! You And your Dad will get more then a few prayers !!!! I know the pain of losing a Dad !! Mine died as I was giving him CPR
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Old 06-14-2006, 04:34 PM   #8
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Sometimes we all feel no one understands where we are coming from ....

My Grandfather passed away in January 05
My mom went Completely blind in April
I had an on going spell with my ex and boyfriend that got into 2 fights
My cat died
My Chinchilla Died
I got into a jet ski accident that sent me and 2 others to the hospital
Got threatend to be sued even though it wasnt my fault
Toatalled my 1st mustang
Again got hurt
My mom had 2 heart surgerys and was told she had less than 6 months to live
My sis attempted suicide
This all happened in a year

Im not comparing. But my life could have been worse.

I was in depression for the longest time.... and I thought maybe God is trying to tell me something... well I know you probably think that its stupid but something was trying to get my attention. I actually had lost all faith in everything spiritual and I was raised in a christian family... My father was a preacher hahaha. Preachers Kid! Ahh!!! But in all this I saw through... Sometimes its hard to believe it could be worse, but it could. Life is Good even if your father has only a short time left make it good for him. My mom has accepted the truth but I still havent. Its hard on me now and will be if that day ever comes (Which I hope never does). I know you prob dont want to here this and neither do I..... but my mom has been constantly saying the time is near.... Either for her or The end period. You have my prayer. If you ever need to talk you know where to find me
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Sometimes we all feel no one understands where we are coming from ....

My Grandfather passed away in January 05
My mom went Completely blind in April
I had an on going spell with my ex and boyfriend that got into 2 fights
My cat died
My Chinchilla Died
I got into a jet ski accident that sent me and 2 others to the hospital
Got threatend to be sued even though it wasnt my fault
Toatalled my 1st mustang
Again got hurt
My mom had 2 heart surgerys and was told she had less than 6 months to live
My sis attempted suicide
This all happened in a year

Im not comparing. But my life could have been worse.

I was in depression for the longest time.... and I thought maybe God is trying to tell me something... well I know you probably think that its stupid but something was trying to get my attention. I actually had lost all faith in everything spiritual and I was raised in a christian family... My father was a preacher hahaha. Preachers Kid! Ahh!!! But in all this I saw through... Sometimes its hard to believe it could be worse, but it could. Life is Good even if your father has only a short time left make it good for him. My mom has accepted the truth but I still havent. Its hard on me now and will be if that day ever comes (Which I hope never does). I know you prob dont want to here this and neither do I..... but my mom has been constantly saying the time is near.... Either for her or The end period. You have my prayer. If you ever need to talk you know where to find me
Damn that is a lot to go through My problems are so small compared to most peoples.
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This thread is another reason I love these people on this site... we all band together when one of us is hurt or going through hell. It helps to have friends by your side.

We're always here for each other, and that's what is so awesome.

Stay strong ComputerGuy.. we're with you the whole way.
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Old 06-19-2006, 12:33 AM   #11
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Damn Riden. I couldn't imagine.

Same with you ComputerGuy.

My grandfather died in January, and that alone was enough to make me worthless for a long while. I still don't have any faith in God after that.
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