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Old 05-05-2010, 12:12 PM   #1
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What does it mean...

when you break up but you start hanging out again three days later almost as if nothing had happened then you think your back together almost a week later but then she says your not together "we're just seeing how things go" niether is interested in other people and you still see each other every day and still tell each other you love each other?
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Re: What does it mean...

Sounds like trouble to me, but don't know either party well enough to make any informed advice.
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Re: What does it mean...

It means you're still in highschool....if not in reality, at least mentally.
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Friends with Benifits, time to experiment... tell her to bring her best girlfriend over as well.
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Put it in her butt
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It tells me set your boundries and deal breakers.
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Can a Mod please move this to the tech section please.
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not in high school i'm gonna be done with college next week
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I've just never felt this scared in my life. I kinda lost all my friends and don't really have anyone to talk to I know talking about it on the internet is pretty pathetic but I really don't know what else to do.
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Re: What does it mean...

keep ****ing her, but keep in the back of your mind that its not going to last. emotionally detach yourself and move on. and keep hitting it in the meantime.

because thats what she is kinda doing. shes enjoying your company but she knows its not going to last. so, just be prepared and enjoy the fact you have a (temporary) girl/piece of ***.

or, alternatively, piitb.
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Re: What does it mean...

^^^good advice right there

Is she still in high school or just out of high school? My roommate went through the same thing...his gf was a junior and was going through that same goddamn stage. They did keep ****in on weekends for about a month and then went their separate ways...and he was fine. He's now got a gf in college (same age as him) and couldn't be happier.

As said, everyone's different and in different situations, so take it as a grain of salt.
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i really don't want to move on i just don't know what to do
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sometimes you have to man...or else you just drive yourself crazy, I know I don't know you well enough to really understand your situation, but from experience and others experience, that's been the best solution.
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Like I said set healthy boundries and set up deal breakers. Deal breakers are this is what I need to see or it is over just make them what you need and keep the boundries. I have been married 14 yrs now and I with the help of Life Skills Class now can set healthy boundries and I can see us going another 14 or many more.
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Like I said set healthy boundries and set up deal breakers. Deal breakers are this is what I need to see or it is over just make them what you need and keep the boundries. I have been married 14 yrs now and I with the help of Life Skills Class now can set healthy boundries and I can see us going another 14 or many more.
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Quite welcome. Just trying to help without telling what to do as that would not be helpful.
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sometimes you have to man...or else you just drive yourself crazy, I know I don't know you well enough to really understand your situation, but from experience and others experience, that's been the best solution.
Yup.. Two friends of mine had that he was JR in college, she was just entering college, she wanted change, he didn't, they fought--made up had sex--got mad.. Repeat 5 more times for about a year. They are good friends now. The funny thing is neither has had a real long relationship after. As for myself, the past 2 I dated were very nice, but 1--was super religious which was cool for a while, until I started having fun with alcohol and went to a strip club 19 at the time. The 2nd we just didn't get along we fought on everything but she was fun. Being single at this stage of your life can be a lot of fun. It's a huge world out there.
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People tell me that but I'm just not one of those kind of guys that has fun being single. I like having someone to talk to at the end of the day.
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You will definitely know what you need to do. We were just talking about this at church the other day. (We could get into religion this and that but we didn't talk much about religion.) The pastor talked based on personal experience mostly he stated that he had this girl friend and they did somethings and life was great then one day, she wanted change, they did same thing as everyone above make up.. He eventually took a break from all relationships, dated a few others, found out he really liked his 1st girl friend better they got back together, and have been married 10 years.
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you can talk to me about religion just don't listen to what some say on here not everyone's a believer.
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Dude....seriously. Its not the end of the world. God made plenty of little fishes in the sea. Trust me, Ive had a hec of a lot of long relationships..... and you think its the end of the world then boom.... a hottie walks into your life and repetes the same sh@t. Anyways, She probably wants you begging her to stay because it makes her feel good.... keeping you on a short leash. Yet see's you everyday because she wants to make sure your not doing something with someone else and because in reality she does want to see you. Im sure if you cut that lease... went out with some buddies and had a good time she'd be changing her tune. Just saying. Been there done that.
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Agreed. Women are evil creatures. The best way to get over this one is to get under another one. Always worked for me.
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I know that what I've been told and is a good idea but at this time all other girls just seem pointless to me they don't interest me at all.
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In all honesty man, time heals everything. If you say you don't have many friends (I don't either), surround yourself with your family. Trust me, they'll always be there and they'll always understand. I had a really hard time like this a few years back but I'm good now. I finally realized I needed to stop feeling sorry for myself and things happen for a reason. As soon as you figure that out man you'll be a lot better off.
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*****es ain't ****, but hoes and tricks. Seriously, life sucks. Women suck. Shrug it off because you only have one life. Don't waste it on one person who wants to play games. You are about to graduate college, why the hell are you trying to have a serious relationship? Enjoy being single. IT IS A LONG PAINFUL LIFE! If you are having these issues right now just leave. It is not worth it.

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Old 05-06-2010, 01:31 AM   #27
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Get her pregnant so she has to stay with you!



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Re: What does it mean...

you should probably watch 500 days of summer. its more of an artsy drama, but its more from the guys perspective than a chick flick. and that perspective is pretty much the same situation you are in right now. it has pretty much everything you will go through and the solution.
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Just hold your boundries and listen to what the Lord is telling you. If it is his will it will be. Just take the break to figure out who you are and what you need and let it work itself out.
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Re: What does it mean...

i'll give you a girl's opinion to this...

...it means she doesn't want to be alone so she is keeping you as a "back up" plan. girls are *****es and we do it a lot (yeah, i'm guilty of this too). don't let her hold you back, go out and find someone who wants you for you.
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*****es ain't ****, but hoes and tricks. Seriously, life sucks. Women suck. Shrug it off because you only have one life. Don't waste it on one person who wants to play games. You are about to graduate college, why the hell are you trying to have a serious relationship? Enjoy being single. IT IS A LONG PAINFUL LIFE! If you are having these issues right now just leave. It is not worth it.

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...it means she doesn't want to be alone so she is keeping you as a "back up" plan. girls are *****es and we do it a lot (yeah, i'm guilty of this too). don't let her hold you back, go out and find someone who wants you for you.
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Tell her:

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well you put your now single on facebook. So now I guess we know what this means.
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lol, trust me, go out, meet girls, have sex with them, enjoy your life. Nothing will drive her more crazy than you out meeting people and having a good time while she's stuck not getting to run you or have you on her leash.
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