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Old 09-18-2006, 10:36 PM   #1
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So this prolly gonna be the most serious thing id prolly ever gonna talk bout on here but this **** has seriously been like killing me mentally....


So when i was down in PA i met a chick and we ended up becoming a couple (bad move i know esp when i live out of state) well i finished up school down there and moved back to CT for a bit before i went to toronto.

So yeah we technically been doing the whole long distance thing for about a total of 8 months now. well things were always going great id be able to fly her to where ever or she come and drive you know we did that great for awhile till i just really couldnt afford it anymore and same with her...So its now been 3 months of not seeing her but always staying in contact whether it be fone or IM

The 3 months have been seriously tough. no physical anything. thing is now i ****ed myself cause i met some random girl up here that i do dig and have been hanging out with for awhile.

Now im stuck cause she (PA gf) is gonna be coming up here and now im starting to have feelings for the new girl.

I dont know what to do. cause i know after she flies up here its gonna be a long while again and seriously its been killer for me cause i do love this chick but i cant take not having her here (even though shes been suppusly saving and trying to find a better job and so forth). I told her this today and obviously she didnt take it well (minus the meeting a new girl part of course)

Im just so confused and so depressed over this like seriously ive never ever felt like this ever.

Another thing is i have cheated on her when i was up in canada guess you can consider i did cheat on her with this new chick but deep down i love this chick shes alot of things i like.

im just seriously ****ed up in the head over this. I just want some inputs of what you guys think and the 3 gals on this board.

Again im sorry for this sad story but i just need to discuss it somehow with someone.

thanks guys
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hey man take it easy.

If the long distance relationship is costing much money, best bet is to stay friends until one of yall can afford a move. long distance relationships never pan out. someone always meets someone else and it all turns and what not. if she saved enough to move where u are or vise versa, it'd all be cool. your best bet is to stay friends, but know that she can hook up with someone else, and you not become jealous
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In my experience, long long distance relationships (more the 3-5 hours away) only will last for a few months. I will never do a long distance again. I have been more hurt, felt more pain, been more depressed this past year than I ever have in my life. My advice, unless its for certain that this girl is going to be moving near you any time soon, then it may be best to break things off with her and pursue this one girl you seem to be interested in. Try to do it in a way as to where you still remain friends with the long distance chick, so if she does ever move or you do find out that you really want to be together, regardless, then you aren't screwed. Me, on the other had, will never do a long distance relationship again... ever.
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Wife #2 lived in Toronto, I lived in Baton Rouge. Worked out...until the US Gov't stuck a knife in my back.

Chrissy lived in Iowa for the first 3 years we knew each other...I lived in NY.

Long distance can work if you work at it. However, it does take trust and commitment. WIthout that, you will never be more than just friends. If you are already scanning the field, you need to be honest with her and tell her because it is already heading down hill.
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thanks guys i appriate it like in all seriousness

well with my dumb luck she actually just broke up wit me like not even 5 mins ago over what you may ask.....a myspace comment i made to another chick.

and here i was down in the dumps over this figures

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thanks guys i appriate it like in all seriousness

well with my dumb luck she actually just broke up wit me like not even 5 mins ago over what you may ask.....a myspace comment i made to another chick.

and here i was down in the dumps over this figures

again thanks guys
HAHAHA im sorry I'm not laughing at your plight, altho according to that other thread doesn't seem like there is a lot of plight you have to deal with, but over a myspace comment? Are you serious? I take back my previous theory that MTV is the downfall of western society. Its going to be MySpace that is the ruin of all of us. Dude, all I can say is, good ridince. If the girl is going to be like that over some dumb website, wow, i really don't know what to say.
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HAHAHA im sorry I'm not laughing at your plight, altho according to that other thread doesn't seem like there is a lot of plight you have to deal with, but over a myspace comment? Are you serious? I take back my previous theory that MTV is the downfall of western society. Its going to be MySpace that is the ruin of all of us. Dude, all I can say is, good ridince. If the girl is going to be like that over some dumb website, wow, i really don't know what to say.
I know someone whose girlfriend checks his myspace page all the time for any chicks leaving comments...and for some that do, she goes and leaves comments on theirs and has gotten into e-fights with some of them.
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lol who could that be rob...
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I know someone whose girlfriend checks his myspace page all the time for any chicks leaving comments...and for some that do, she goes and leaves comments on theirs and has gotten into e-fights with some of them.
wow. she better be ****ing hot and amazing in bed for me to put up with that kind of ****. even then, its pushing it. That is knocking on the door of psycho!
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I wonder how many lives have been lost due to Myspace comments
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I wonder how many lives have been lost due to Myspace comments
it seems that this has been debated a few times lol.
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I wonder how many lives have been lost due to Myspace comments
As long as it keeps happening, then the answer is not enough...we need to get these genes out of the pool early.
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HAHAHA im sorry I'm not laughing at your plight, altho according to that other thread doesn't seem like there is a lot of plight you have to deal with, but over a myspace comment? Are you serious? I take back my previous theory that MTV is the downfall of western society. Its going to be MySpace that is the ruin of all of us. Dude, all I can say is, good ridince. If the girl is going to be like that over some dumb website, wow, i really don't know what to say.
nah its cool i totally 100% feel the same way. she doesnt seem to though. she just had self estem and insecurity issues and i tried helping her on that. Obviously i failed.

But i dont care i have a chick whos a town over, former college cheerleader, treats me awesome, has self esteem and doesnt take **** from anybody, cooks GREAT, awesome sex.

im not complaining at all now. i dont need the drama i just need someone to have my back which this chick does and supports what i wanna do in life.

thats all i need and now what i have.
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...cooks GREAT, awesome sex.
Well, seems you have the important aspects covered.
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IMO long distance does not work
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Well, seems you have the important aspects covered.
mmmhms you know it man

last night went over her house and she answered the door with this lil teddy on ah man it was seriously killer like i wish i had that **** all the time haha

then this morning she cooked me a bad *** breakfast ah i seriously cant complain


and yes even i to am a believer that long distance relationships dont work
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nah its cool i totally 100% feel the same way. she doesnt seem to though. she just had self estem and insecurity issues and i tried helping her on that. Obviously i failed.

But i dont care i have a chick whos a town over, former college cheerleader, treats me awesome, has self esteem and doesnt take **** from anybody, cooks GREAT, awesome sex.

im not complaining at all now. i dont need the drama i just need someone to have my back which this chick does and supports what i wanna do in life.

thats all i need and now what i have.
girls with self esteem issues = i will never date another one! too much drama
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LD can work....it has twice for me...

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LD can work....it has twice for me...

And...:worthless:
haha i dont have a pic of her in the teddy but heres a pic of her though
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I wonder how many lives have been lost due to Myspace comments
Dude, even like having girl type of friends on your myspace brings up issues lol
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