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Old 09-21-2006, 12:48 PM   #1
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Im in a really messed up situation... help?

My roomates ex-girlfriend keeps hitting on me, wanting to come over and give me back rubs, wanting to go out for ice cream all the time, all this crazy crap and I dont want to be mean to her, but I need to somehow tell her to basicall **** off, since this guys not only one of my best friends, but my roomate and I dont want to feel tension at all. This girls hot too, and if the guy wasnt my roomate Id probably go after her, but I just cant and she wont go away. Then on top of it, she talks to me about all the problems she and my roomate still have and will say things to me like "Why does he hate me so much" and other crap. I think she's crazy personally, but she just wont go away. Im not the kind of person to be an ******* to other people, so Im kinda stuck in a pickle cause I dont want my roomate thinking Im going after his ex-gf... I dunno, little help?
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How long have they been ex's? My honest opinion is, if they are over, and you are interested, go for it. Ex is in front for a reason...Doesn't help much I know, but, it is an ex. Then again, I married one of my ex's best friends, so maybe I am biased.
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Thing is though, I dont want a relationship with her at all... I see how shes a psycho crazy person and could only imagine that in a relationship. The point is, shes hot and always flirting with me and telling me things like "I really wanted to kiss you last night"... ITs like WTF woman... Id just kinda want to bang her and be done
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Id just kinda want to bang her and be done
That sounds like the perfect compromise...just hit it and forget it...

Just tell your buddy that she kept hitting on you, so you hit it to get her to leave you alone in hopes that would stop her from coming over so much so that it would help ease his pain over seeing her all the time...so you took one for the team and hit it to keep it away.
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That sounds like the perfect compromise...just hit it and forget it...

Just tell your buddy that she kept hitting on you, so you hit it to get her to leave you alone in hopes that would stop her from coming over so much so that it would help ease his pain over seeing her all the time...so you took one for the team and hit it to keep it away.
Good advise !! Just hit it and move on .Just make sure you turn on the kitty cam
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"Go away"
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That sounds like the perfect compromise...just hit it and forget it...

Just tell your buddy that she kept hitting on you, so you hit it to get her to leave you alone in hopes that would stop her from coming over so much so that it would help ease his pain over seeing her all the time...so you took one for the team and hit it to keep it away.
That can be dangerous. If she gets attached easily, you could just be encouraging her. Depending on your skills at avoidance, you may be able to let it fade afterwards...
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I know I shouldnt do anything, but then that whole guy brain thing comes into play and when I drink, I see her out a lot... and that could be bad.
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"We got a stage 5 clinger"
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Old 09-21-2006, 01:27 PM   #10
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Im watching that right now...
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lol..watched it last night

just get wit another girl...especially while you're around her
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just be up front with her and tell her "Get down on your knee and...." hmm.... yea say that to her just to see what she does lol. Just come out of the blue... be interesting.
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That can be dangerous. If she gets attached easily, you could just be encouraging her. Depending on your skills at avoidance, you may be able to let it fade afterwards...
Not if you give her a nice donkey punch in the process....and if that turns her on more...then just run....fast...
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Ok guys, donkey punches are not realistic here... and Im not the type of person that just says "Get down on your knees" so..... what else ya got?
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lol..watched it last night

just get wit another girl...especially while you're around her
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Yes, it is a good idea...and could work to your benefit...
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According to the beer commercials, it is a man law that you only have to wait 6 months before doing your buddy's girl. If it hasn't been 6 months, tell her to go away. But if you really want to hit it, be discreet. Hell I had two different friends hit two of my ex's and we're still friends. I was pissed for a little bit, but I got over it. And they were both psycho chicks.
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Just look on the bright side, if you tell her to go away thats one less girl you will not have the pleasure of disappointing.
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if she is really wanting you it could be your chance to disappoint two girls at once!
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i think u should just tell her straight up exactly how u feel (that shes ur best friends ex, etc etc...)

u never know, she could be trying to get with u to make him jealous
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i think u should just tell her straight up exactly how u feel (that shes ur best friends ex, etc etc...)

u never know, she could be trying to get with u to make him jealous
Never thought of that one !!!! Your good Jerzeeee girl
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she could be trying to get with u to make him jealous
i wouldnt doubt that...
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i wouldnt doubt that...
You could find out by saying her ex is cool with y'all banging as long as you video tape it for his review and distribution later...

That could expose her true intentions.
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i wouldnt doubt that...
just tell her that you are more interested in ceiling cat....that might be enough to freak her out
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If she's just trying to make your buddy jealous, tell your in on it and bang her for the hell of it. If your buddy finds out, tell him that she told you he was alright with it. Then play dumb. Us guys are good at that.
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If she's just trying to make your buddy jealous, tell your in on it and bang her for the hell of it. If your buddy finds out, tell him that she told you he was alright with it. Then play dumb. Us guys are good at that.
holy crap never....i could see that destroying the friendship
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holy crap never....i could see that destroying the friendship
No, in the male word, stupidity is a valid defense...hence the reason we try and use it so much in our relationships. we get confused and forget it doesn't work with women...it only works with other guys...
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Good friends never let a chick come between them. Now a good woman... that's a different story.
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you guys would want to watch me bone some girl???


No offense, but I wouldnt really want to see any of you do that **** lol
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its just to see the girl
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