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Old 03-26-2007, 09:39 AM   #71
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correction. we are either married or ignored by women. or in my experience, we are not bad boy enough for the women to change. i have come to realize that women don't go into a relationship trying to find Mr. Right, but more so trying to make him. so they find the biggest dip**** they can and try to change him. problem is, either they succeed and then find him dull and uninteresting or they don't and think he is an *******, of which the whole time he already was but you refused to see just how bad. i have been with my wife for 11 yrs. she finally gave up on trying to change me about a year or two ago. she got some of what she wanted and i kept some of what i wanted. my point being, all of my wife's friends asked her how she found someone like me. when they finally stopped going after the *******, two of them are engaged and in the longest relationships they have ever been in. and guess what, the guys are nice and treat them right. so, once again, we do exist. we are just the ones that you
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Sheesh, I was all ready to post up in here, but everything I wanted to say has already been said a couple times. Good job guys.

I was the nice guy for the longest time. I am still refered to as a nice guy and I hear all the time "Why can't I find a guy like Rob?". However, I went from putting the woman on a pedestal, bending over backwards to make her happy, to sticking to my guns...what I think is how I will continue to think. It is my way or the highway basically. Got tired of all the using me BS.

Back to the original topic, enjoy your youth and just hit whatever will lay down for you. I was married at 19 and 24...and well, just don't worry about relationships for a while. Go out, have fun, if something opens up for you, enjoy it, and move on.
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Old 03-26-2007, 10:42 AM   #73
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yeah... I'll probably have to finish up this semester, and hone my single man skills... and then have fun next year. I've never really had a chance to be single at a large university, so we'll see what happens.
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I was wishing I was single saturday night when driving home...a real hot blonde in a red vette blew me a kiss....unfortunately, the G/F was in her car behind me as we were on our way home from Kyle's. I soooo would have followed that...instead, all I could do was throw her a rev and give her a tip of the hat.
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lol... that sucks man. anyway, I think it's time to finally learn how to hunt females. I'm sure I'll strike out a lot, but hey, there are a lot of girls around... plus, it's not like I'm a total ******, and even a blind squirrel occasionally finds a nut.
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man, the ex is pissing me off today. she's threatening to throw my stuff away if I don't come pick it up soon. however, I drive 6 hours on Saturday for work... and my dad is going into the hospital on Friday for heart related issues that may requires surgery. I will be so uber pissed if she throws anything away... she has my college baseball jersey, and I really want that back. I can't buy another one of those.
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I don't believe in bringing that stuff to the workplace.
eh, its normal in my workplace, most of the cops are married to the dispatchers
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correction. we are either married or ignored by women. or in my experience, we are not bad boy enough for the women to change. i have come to realize that women don't go into a relationship trying to find Mr. Right, but more so trying to make him. so they find the biggest dip**** they can and try to change him. problem is, either they succeed and then find him dull and uninteresting or they don't and think he is an *******, of which the whole time he already was but you refused to see just how bad. i have been with my wife for 11 yrs. she finally gave up on trying to change me about a year or two ago. she got some of what she wanted and i kept some of what i wanted. my point being, all of my wife's friends asked her how she found someone like me. when they finally stopped going after the *******, two of them are engaged and in the longest relationships they have ever been in. and guess what, the guys are nice and treat them right. so, once again, we do exist. we are just the ones that you walk past to get to the *******.
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nice girls go for ********...

nice guy wants nice girl but cant...

*****y/slutty girls prey on nice guys...

nice guys take what they can get because there are no nice girls available...

nice girls see nice guys dating *****es/sluts and don't understand why.
in my experience, both of you are so right i can't even believe it.
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in my experience, both of you are so right i can't even believe it.
it's true. the ex started dating me I think because I was a college guy and was older and just "cooler" than the guys she had exposure to. But once she realized college life isn't all fun, and that there's ACTUAL work involved... the fun level went down, and some times it meant she didn't get the attention she thought she deserved. And yes, the first semester, I was working all the time... but I also had a lot of expenses coming up. After that, I dropped from 40 hours a week working to 16, and that still wasn't good enough. But now that I'm single, I'm going to start coming back with more hours of work... so I can afford the hunt.
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argh.


i am not looking for an *******. i am not looking for a jerk. i want a nice guy, i want a guy i can talk to about anything, one that likes cars as much as i do, one that will treat me the way that i'm supposed to be treated--thats what i am looking for, cept every guy i come across that is like that, turns into just a friend, and thats how it always seems to go--i think i'm supposed to just be single, i dunno

but girls don't want a jerk, we want that nice guy, at least, thats what i want
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but girls don't want a jerk, we want that nice guy, at least, thats what i want
like weve stated, youre a exception to the rule, a nice girl that wants a nice guy, its like a 1/20 chance on both sides.
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i am not looking for an *******. i am not looking for a jerk. i want a nice guy, i want a guy i can talk to about anything, one that likes cars as much as i do, one that will treat me the way that i'm supposed to be treated--thats what i am looking for, cept every guy i come across that is like that, turns into just a friend, and thats how it always seems to go--i think i'm supposed to just be single, i dunno

but girls don't want a jerk, we want that nice guy, at least, thats what i want
the problem is... the guy you want isnt the guy you women go after.

why? because the guys that you just described are either in a relationship or too shy/quiet/not confident/obnoxious/unattractive to catch your attention and therefore, you dont realize you are missing out on him.

there are literally hundreds of thousands of awesome guys out there.. trust me.. i know cuz i am one of them and i personally know a bunch. and what happens is that we deal with women's **** for so long wondering wtf is going on until we catch onto your little games (HS girls were evil and college girls werent much better). then one day we find a girl.. like myself at this moment.. and guess what.. after all that **** women put me through back in the day growing up in HS and college made me assholish a bit. i really wish i was still that niave nice guy from back in the day but i changed and i know it. however, im still not an *******.. i just accidently say or do assholish things.. what man doesnt haha. its just funny to me that once i develop assholish symptoms i get a decent girlfriend and not some slut who wants to **** me lol.

so i developed this little conclusion:

women's prime are between the age of 16-20... then they start settling down and wanting a real relationship.

men's prime is 20+

therefore, guys want the relationship and women have the power... then men gain power and the women want the relationship.
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i was 22 when i met my wife. she was 18. now look back at my previous post and do the math. anyway, it took me three whole months to know she was the one. and the reason for that was she, for the most part, let me be me. she changed the way i dressed, for which i dress better now. she changed my outlook on life, for which i am a more positive person as a result. but she didn't try to change the kid in me. does she like it? hell no. does she let me know that? hell yes. but i was the nice guy she was looking for like all women claim to want. only this time she meant it. so that's why it only took me three months to pop the question. honestly, all a guy wants is a chick that's not trying to change them. so when i found that and she found what she wanted, i asked and she said yes. the rest is history and two kids. best damn decision i ever made.

hang in there Jimmy. she's out there. but you don't need to actively pursue her now. i found the less you look, the faster she appears. so have fun for now. the rest of your life can wait a little while.
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there's a girl on the horizon... and the game has already started. She says she's ready for the settle down stage... she's smart, wants to move to a similar place... and the move time lines up too. She's very attractive, and quiet/shy... which is something I'm looking for too. I'm not "actively" trying to get her to like me. If she likes me, she'll like me. Then there's no pressure for me to keep up an act. She seems to like all the things I like, and even beat me on guitar hero a couple times.

I just don't want to jump into another relationship when I may not be emotionally ready to. I just found out today my ex was dating someone less than a DAY after we broke up. That hurt. We got into a HUUUUGE fight. Basically yelling over the phone at each other for almost an hour. I'm so ready to move on. She is soo in the past. **** her. She's dumb. It's time for the new girl... so I'm going to give the new girl her chance... and we'll see what happens.
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Having a friendship with an ex is next to impossible. Especially when she is a psycho.
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I have a friendship with the other one... I just don't talk to her.
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Having a friendship with an ex is next to impossible. Especially when she is a psycho.
I have a friendship with one of my exes.
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I have a friendship with one of my exes.
Yes, but she isn't a freaking psycho. Daphne's pretty cool. And seems to be the exception.
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