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Old 07-08-2007, 03:29 AM   #1
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So, I am realizing that I hate most of my friends.

So a few weeks back, me and my girlfriend of nearly a year broke up to take a break and figure some things out. Well I have been fine for a few weeks, but lately I am really hating to be around some of my friends. I don't drink or smoke and that seems like that is all they ever want to do. I mean seven days a week. And as of late, I have just been staying home to avoid them. Which hasn't bothered me to much because I have been able to work out again.

And since I have just got my MCP all of these job offers are pouring in. I have one offered that I am stoked about because it's $20/hour in a tier one desktop support technician. And another thing is that me and Kelly (The "girlfriend") spent 95% of our time with each other. So it's been really hard not having my buddy to call up and go do something.

Ugh. I just hope things clear up before August, and I have my high paying job back and my best friend.

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Re: So, I am realizing that I hate most of my friends.

it takes time to get used to that. but if your friends are the type that sit around and do that everyday, say something to them, or, find new friends
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Re: So, I am realizing that I hate most of my friends.

I know I need to find new friends, but I just hate meeting new people.

Lately my life has been five step foward, and six steps back.
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Re: So, I am realizing that I hate most of my friends.

actually im kinda in the same boat as you.

enjoy them in moderation lol. some of my friends.. well.. lets just say they chose to be very unsucessful in life. i go to the bar with them every other thursday usually... but when they call on a wednesday night or something... i just tell them i cant and im busy.

if you are feeling lonely, well... find yourself a hobby or interest. lately ive been lookin at aquariums and thinkin of buyin some fish and live plants. also... ive picked up golfing and go to the driving range weekly. my girlfriend is still at college (3 hours away) and i just try to find other little things to take up my time when im not working. a full time job will really consume you.
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Re: So, I am realizing that I hate most of my friends.

I really don't like my friends either...
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actually im kinda in the same boat as you.

enjoy them in moderation lol. some of my friends.. well.. lets just say they chose to be very unsucessful in life. i go to the bar with them every other thursday usually... but when they call on a wednesday night or something... i just tell them i cant and im busy.

if you are feeling lonely, well... find yourself a hobby or interest. lately ive been lookin at aquariums and thinkin of buyin some fish and live plants. also... ive picked up golfing and go to the driving range weekly. my girlfriend is still at college (3 hours away) and i just try to find other little things to take up my time when im not working. a full time job will really consume you.
I would loove to get an aquarium again, but I don't have the space.

I am going to start a full time job soon, it's just I'm afraid I won't see anyone at all.
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Re: So, I am realizing that I hate most of my friends.

I hear yah. Except, to me it seems like lots of my friends are just bailing on me. No one calls anymore to hang out and do stuff, and when I try to get everyone together it falls apart. Now I know everyone on here knows I'm an ******* on the web, but in real life i'm not that bad. I don't get it. And then the friends I do hang around sometimes(well acquaintences anyway) I don't want to be around them.

And when I do actually hang out around friends all I hear is them talking bad about the people they hang around(people I used to hang out but avoid because I don't like them). I don't understand why people would hang around other people, call them friends, then go hang out with other friends and talk bad about the same people they were just hanging out with. This happens in several groups of friends that I'm with. I just don't understand.

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Re: So, I am realizing that I hate most of my friends.

i'd recommend just finding some new friends...i mean, meeting people is actually pretty cool if you're not afraid/self concious or whatever.

my problem with my friends is we hang out all the time, but we can never think of anything to do (that's free), lol
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Re: So, I am realizing that I hate most of my friends.

id recommend pickin up an MMO haha jk... kinda.

but in response to what bullit said... im kinda the same way. while my friends call me to go out and stuff a lot, its hard to get the "old crew" together again. it seems we all went out seperate ways.

my one friend went to florida for some full time 2 year film school... another works full time doing landscaping (we dont have mexicans doing it up here in PA... yet)... another does telemarketing... one goes to school at pitt and has new friends... one of the girls who is one of the guys is in jersey and doing her one thing... etc.

i guess its a part of growing up.
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id recommend pickin up an MMO haha jk... kinda.
ALL of them played WoW hardcore for a while. but they've moved on now, haha. we hang out IRL.

but sometimes we get some serious MOHAA goin.
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I hear yah. Except, to me it seems like lots of my friends are just bailing on me. No one calls anymore to hang out and do stuff, and when I try to get everyone together it falls apart. Now I know everyone on here knows I'm an ******* on the web, but in real life i'm not that bad. I don't get it. And then the friends I do hang around sometimes(well acquaintences anyway) I don't want to be around them.

And when I do actually hang out around friends all I hear is them talking bad about the people they hang around(people I used to hang out but avoid because I don't like them). I don't understand why people would hang around other people, call them friends, then go hang out with other friends and talk bad about the same people they were just hanging out with. This happens in several groups of friends that I'm with. I just don't understand.

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I love you Craig... *hugs* lol

We do need to get together sometime..I'm gonna be moving in a few weeks to Meridian for a while. Give me a call sometime and we'll work something out.
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Re: So, I am realizing that I hate most of my friends.

Well, the only good thing is that a lot of girls are wanting to hang out now.

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Well, the only good thing is that a lot of girls are wanting to hang out now.

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Just be careful with that, if you want to date any of them, try to do it before you fall into the "good friend" zone. Once you are there, you can never get out!! Haha, but seriously, chicks are definitely fun to hang out with.
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I love you Craig... *hugs* lol

We do need to get together sometime..I'm gonna be moving in a few weeks to Meridian for a while. Give me a call sometime and we'll work something out.
LMAO, your a trip Brad. You, for one, are not one of the friends I was talking about(as in flaker outers). But there are a few in the group in which we hang out that I am, especially the ones that are nice to your face and like to talk crap about people and their cars when they are not around. I just don't understand why people make it a personal matter about having one car faster than the other. I race for fun, and make the car faster for fun, not to be top DAWG or some crap like that. It's that and the old OLD group that used to hang out there and still kind of do that just can't seem to figure out who they like better and when to talk about who. But that's another ball game.


What yah moving to meridian for? And I'll give yah a call sometime this week.

On a better note, Willie is back in town. Supposed to be out tues night.
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