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Old 06-19-2013, 10:57 PM   #701
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Hmm do her issues stem from poor choices? Will she listen to someone else?

Sometimes people don't listen to their family, and another person can help.
It mainly stems from laziness, and the lack of motivation to get out of where she's at. Granted she is finally applying for disability, it only took a year for her to even attempt to apply. And it was online at that.

She's depressed, and she has meds to take. She's attempted to work 1 job. A physical job she knew she couldn't work to begin with. She's completely threw every option out of the window because it's not what she wants. Thats her main problem, she would rather do what she wants, than do what she needs to.
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I hope your situation gets better bro, I too am the calm of the storm in my family. It says alot about a person that can shoulder such responsibility and maintain things in the household. Depression is hard to understand and even harder for the person going through it to truly overcome it. My mother would have bipolar episodes where she would turn the house upside literally and it would just become soooooo stressful to deal with. I know you love your mother, but you gotta make sure you take care of yourself also because you won't be able to help anybody if you're unable to help yourself. You're the back bone for a reason continue to stay strong and be that rock bro...
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Doc I have a headache lol
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Doc I have a headache lol
I've had one all day!
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It mainly stems from laziness, and the lack of motivation to get out of where she's at. Granted she is finally applying for disability, it only took a year for her to even attempt to apply. And it was online at that.

She's depressed, and she has meds to take. She's attempted to work 1 job. A physical job she knew she couldn't work to begin with. She's completely threw every option out of the window because it's not what she wants. Thats her main problem, she would rather do what she wants, than do what she needs to.
Hmm have you talked with a psychologist, or psychiatrist? And has she?

I think you're strong, and I know you probably love your mother, but you may have to show her some tough love.
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Old 06-20-2013, 10:47 PM   #706
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Hmm have you talked with a psychologist, or psychiatrist? And has she?

I think you're strong, and I know you probably love your mother, but you may have to show her some tough love.
I'm not going to pay someone to listen to me ramble on and give me their opinion. That's why I have you guys, haha!

Tough love seems to really be my only option. If she doesn't get that, then I'm just gunna go crazy lol
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I'm not going to pay someone to listen to me ramble on and give me their opinion. That's why I have you guys, haha!

Tough love seems to really be my only option. If she doesn't get that, then I'm just gunna go crazy lol
Ok well they do have a lot of education.
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I'm not going to pay someone to listen to me ramble on and give me their opinion. That's why I have you guys, haha!

Tough love seems to really be my only option. If she doesn't get that, then I'm just gunna go crazy lol
Not to worry, I'm a psychologist on the Internet.

Actually I'm not!

But tough love is a good option mm
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I'm not a dr but I play one on TV. Sorry I've not been very active guys. Been a crazy busy few days.
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I'm not a dr but I play one on TV. Sorry I've not been very active guys. Been a crazy busy few days.
Welcome to my life :p
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Doc I have a headache lol
I got a headache washing my car yesterday in the BRIGHT sun... It's so damn red and bright it hurts my eyes lol
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I got a headache washing my car yesterday in the BRIGHT sun... It's so damn red and bright it hurts my eyes lol
Lmao that's a good thing right
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I have this awesome straight 1/2 mile road RIGHT in front of my house and I just want to go flying down it... The urge to break the law is so strong...
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I have this awesome straight 1/2 mile road RIGHT in front of my house and I just want to go flying down it... The urge to break the law is so strong...
Wow! How dare they do that to you!

I know the feeling tho, the stretch of road I live on is almost exactly 1/4 mile(I think its a hair more), but on one end is a grove with a rough driveway and on the other end is an "s" bend
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Wow! How dare they do that to you!

I know the feeling tho, the stretch of road I live on is almost exactly 1/4 mile(I think its a hair more), but on one end is a grove with a rough driveway and on the other end is an "s" bend
At the end of this road is my work parking lot... Sooo tempting. But there's ALWAYS cops arround and I would probably get reported anyway since my car is not exactly stealthy... Lol
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At the end of this road is my work parking lot... Sooo tempting. But there's ALWAYS cops arround and I would probably get reported anyway since my car is not exactly stealthy... Lol
Yeah its best not to take those chances, it'd be one thing if there were a couple or a few mustangs that look like yours but there aren't sooo lol
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Yeah its best not to take those chances, it'd be one thing if there were a couple or a few mustangs that look like yours but there aren't sooo lol
Yea I saw a cop I have NEVER met before in wallmart and he was like "hey are you the kid with that red mustang? I've seen you around town it's a nice car" I was like WTF
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Yea I saw a cop I have NEVER met before in wallmart and he was like "hey are you the kid with that red mustang? I've seen you around town it's a nice car" I was like WTF
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I have this awesome straight 1/2 mile road RIGHT in front of my house and I just want to go flying down it... The urge to break the law is so strong...
Where do you live? I'll come christen it for ya I have a similar road about a half mile away that is about 3/8-1/2 mile long. I had the urge so many times that I finally let it go and hit 130 so fast I was like really!!!!! Lol it honestly scared me how quick I got up that fast. I now have respect for our sixxer and haven't pushed it like that since.
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Dang anyone ever had that moment in life when there's a girl that catches your eye maybe at the local store maybe at school or work and you start to develop a little crush for this person then when you find out the truth and you don't like it it just sucks haha
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Dang anyone ever had that moment in life when there's a girl that catches your eye maybe at the local store maybe at school or work and you start to develop a little crush for this person then when you find out the truth and you don't like it it just sucks haha
Soooooo many times lol it seems a lot of ppl smoke pot and that's a deal breaker for me. Any smoking but especially pot.
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Dang anyone ever had that moment in life when there's a girl that catches your eye maybe at the local store maybe at school or work and you start to develop a little crush for this person then when you find out the truth and you don't like it it just sucks haha
It's called puppy lov.
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Dang anyone ever had that moment in life when there's a girl that catches your eye maybe at the local store maybe at school or work and you start to develop a little crush for this person then when you find out the truth and you don't like it it just sucks haha
The truth hurts dang it mostly for me they're married or have a boyfriend already
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The right one will come the buzz kill is pretty bad though.
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Soooooo many times lol it seems a lot of ppl smoke pot and that's a deal breaker for me. Any smoking but especially pot.
Yeah same here

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The right one will come the buzz kill is pretty bad though.
Yeah it is haha
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Yeah same here

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Yeah it is haha
At least I got a good quote out of it! Oh my goodness that was funny.

Is it just me or does anyone else have find Lzzy Hale attractive? Lead singer of Hale Storm I'm almost thinking about seeing her in concert.
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At least I got a good quote out of it! Oh my goodness that was funny.

Is it just me or does anyone else have find Lzzy Hale attractive? Lead singer of Hale Storm I'm almost thinking about seeing her in concert.
;p I just looked her up. She has a nice body but she kinda has a man face lol
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;p I just looked her up. She has a nice body but she kinda has a man face lol
Text me her name I never asked NicholasP what her name was haha
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Text me her name I never asked NicholasP what her name was haha
Lol I just googled the name you said
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Lol I just googled the name you said
Oh oh yeah.. Haha I'm blonde!

Yeah that's what I'm like nice body but the face
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Enjoy ur family and friends. Always tell the people u love how much they mean, if ur not around, they will never know. Be sure to tell ur children how much u love them. They need that and not every kid gets that. Show the ones who are important to u, just how important they are. We won't always be around to remind them.
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Doc I finally get a day off yay. Maybe some of my mods will get installed. I may attempt to install my springs tomorrow.

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Or my smoked headlights
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Doc I finally get a day off yay. Maybe some of my mods will get installed. I may attempt to install my springs tomorrow.

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Or my smoked headlights
Ohhhhhh I want to see those smoked headlights. That's gonna be awesome
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Ohhhhhh I want to see those smoked headlights. That's gonna be awesome
Meh I'm lazy and it's suppose to rain. I really want to install them but I know as soon as I start it's gonna pour.
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U should take it easy today bro. No work at all should be what's on the schedule.
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U should take it easy today bro. No work at all should be what's on the schedule.
Yeah take it easy!

I'm in need a vacation badly! But having no extra money for 9 months nearly killed the savings account. Plus being the new guy at work gotta prove myself before I take vacation. I'm hoping for Mustang week if a friend of mine can make it
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