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Old 05-13-2013, 06:41 AM   #71
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Sincerely thanks for all of the advice, you all give great points from different views from all life experiences.

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Before u let the next guy in, make him read this thread. Tell him the guy ur looking for gas to meet all this criteria.
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Before u let the next guy in, make him read this thread. Tell him the guy ur looking for gas to meet all this criteria.
Lol, BTW ^ great advice from all these ppl Jet. I saw this on a movie once, but it was a very good and true quote, that I ask myself and others quite a bit.

"Can you live without them?" If you can live without them, then there is no use wasting both of your time. If you can live without them, then you WILL eventually end up without them so sooner is always better than later. And just for the future, money does not equal happiness. Just bc anyone is successful and has connections doesn't mean they can treat you like sh1t. I hate men that do this. I am not saying ALL successful men do this, but most of them treat women like crap, bc they know that they can get and have what they want. Anyways enough of my rambling good luck with the single life and don't rush into another bad relationship, make sure the next guy is worthy of you.
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One thing that I really like about this whole situation, everybody steps up and speaks from the heart with life lessons. That's the kind of advice that people honestly need. That being said,

99Ford. U r the man. Don't ever apologize for giving real advice. When u feel ur right that strongly, don't ever hold it in. Your advice couldn't have been given any better by anyone else. Moral of the story, we all have to start somewhere. Never be too good for any job. Why? Because at the end of the week, we are never too good for the payday. Flipping burgers or performing surgery, we need people doing them all and I wonder how many dr's worked a fast food job before they ever did the first brain surgery? Make money! That's what it's about. Help urself. You have to want to help you before anybody can ever truly help u.

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These guys have given you some great advice. Dr. Abbott will tell u that honestly, the absolute best thing you can do is, be selective (picky). If the next guy comes along and doesn't sweep u off your feet, let him keep walkin. If anybody ever treats u in a way that is not how u want to be treated, don't stay for another minute. Why? There are too many people out there to ever let someone not treat u the way I want to be treated. That said. Don't set unreal expectations, we are all human.

A brilliant man once said that out of anger and harsh words comes confusion. If you think about it, it's true. Not immediate sometimes but confusion about being in that situation and about our choices.

Remember this, everyday when u wake up, u make a decision about the person u r and the person u will be in the future. The divisions you make an the people you surround yourself with with affect and influence your future.

Never let anybody treat u in a way you don't want to be treated. Be picky.

Last words, I'm sure u already know, u can't choose people to be with based upon their inner circle or who they know. Pick the person u want because of who they are inside and how that make u feel. U and who u choose will create your own inner circle, a group of people who compliments both of u.

There is only one u, be picky with who u let close.
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And to all the other replies about my situation, thanks guys. I never said what I do, but I work for a small fresh cut meat market. I cut 90% of everything that walks out the door. I make every piece of sausage and jerky that goes out. I have to fulfill every special order that we get. All of this bc the owner doesn't want the other butcher to mess it up. He is a nice guy and does not want to fire someone. < that's understandable but at a point you just have to let them go. If I am there with the other butcher, the owner will still make me cut everything bc he knows if I cut it, it will look good and be consistent. Anyways, I have to go to work now and make a couple hundred pounds of sausage and bout 50 lbs of jerky. see yall in a bit.
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Sincerely thanks for all of the advice, you all give great points from different views from all life experiences.

I will be looking back at these replies from time to time!
Savvy there are a ton of guys out there. I know it won't take one long to snatch you up
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And to all the other replies about my situation, thanks guys. I never said what I do, but I work for a small fresh cut meat market. I cut 90% of everything that walks out the door. I make every piece of sausage and jerky that goes out. I have to fulfill every special order that we get. All of this bc the owner doesn't want the other butcher to mess it up. He is a nice guy and does not want to fire someone. < that's understandable but at a point you just have to let them go. If I am there with the other butcher, the owner will still make me cut everything bc he knows if I cut it, it will look good and be consistent. Anyways, I have to go to work now and make a couple hundred pounds of sausage and bout 50 lbs of jerky. see yall in a bit.
Hey for the advice can we get some sausage yum!
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Hey for the advice can we get some sausage yum!
Lol if I ever get a weekend off I will bring you some to ATL that might not ever happen though lol, you should make a few calls
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It's 12:39 am and I don't want to wake the neighborhood lol
I'm glad it worked out Savannah! Now get out there and hang with your Mustang peeps!! ;D And like everyone else said be picky, and if they can't ask you like a man leave em standing where they are.

And isn't that what neighborhoods are for lol Neighborhoods and loud exhaust!

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And to all the other replies about my situation, thanks guys. I never said what I do, but I work for a small fresh cut meat market. I cut 90% of everything that walks out the door. I make every piece of sausage and jerky that goes out. I have to fulfill every special order that we get. All of this bc the owner doesn't want the other butcher to mess it up. He is a nice guy and does not want to fire someone. < that's understandable but at a point you just have to let them go. If I am there with the other butcher, the owner will still make me cut everything bc he knows if I cut it, it will look good and be consistent. Anyways, I have to go to work now and make a couple hundred pounds of sausage and bout 50 lbs of jerky. see yall in a bit.
Sounds like you really do need some help who knows how to do your job and do it as good as you can, that being said when can I come up?
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I'm glad it worked out Savannah! Now get out there and hang with your Mustang peeps!! ;D And like everyone else said be picky, and if they can't ask you like a man leave em standing where they are.

And isn't that what neighborhoods are for lol Neighborhoods and loud exhaust!

Sounds like you really do need some help who knows how to do your job and do it as good as you can, that being said when can I come up?
Lol where u at?
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See. That's not too far. Ga fla. y'all r neighbors.
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Yeah emotions are still in shock lol
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Time will heal all the pain. I promise. U know now u owe it to urself to be picky. I know it hurts.

U should call up all ur mustang friends and go out. Don't have to be expensive. Just for fun.
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Time will heal all the pain. I promise. U know now u owe it to urself to be picky. I know it hurts.

U should call up all ur mustang friends and go out. Don't have to be expensive. Just for fun.
That's what I'm doing, except they drive BMWs lol mustangs are later this week, I love them both!
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That's what I'm doing, except they drive BMWs lol mustangs are later this week, I love them both!
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Not today, every Saturday we have a dozen lol
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Well I didn't stall at all, all last week I feel more confident now driving the mustang, I don't even get nervous any more when I jump in.
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Well I didn't stall at all, all last week I feel more confident now driving the mustang, I don't even get nervous any more when I jump in.
That your first manual??
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That your first manual??
Lol that's what I'm sayin. I know it is, but I just wish I had a new 5.0 to "learn" in
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Lol that's what I'm sayin. I know it is, but I just wish I had a new 5.0 to "learn" in
Yeah it is... I just didn't want to waste a couple of grand on an old car to learn in, and I didn't want to put anybody on the spot by asking them to teach me in their car.. I honestly thought driving a manual transmission was going to be easier But I think I got it now..
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Yeah it is... I just didn't want to waste a couple of grand on an old car to learn in, and I didn't want to put anybody on the spot by asking them to teach me in their car.. I honestly thought driving a manual transmission was going to be easier But I think I got it now..
Its a little tricky at first. Took me a week to learn. But once you learn you wont forget
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Yeah it is... I just didn't want to waste a couple of grand on an old car to learn in, and I didn't want to put anybody on the spot by asking them to teach me in their car.. I honestly thought driving a manual transmission was going to be easier But I think I got it now..
Lol a transmission costs more than a couple grand
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Its a little tricky at first. Took me a week to learn. But once you learn you wont forget
Yeah, sounds about right.. I've only driven mine like 8 times(I drive a work truck everyday, so its not a DD).. So that's like a little bit over a week that it took me to get it

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Yeah... I try not to worry too much about it.. I'll just have to deal with it when the time comes.. Hopefully not soon though But I'll let you know.. It can be part of a study on how long a transmission will last on a new 5.0 when you don't know how to drive a manual transmission
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Yeah, sounds about right.. I've only driven mine like 8 times(I drive a work truck everyday, so its not a DD).. So that's like a little bit over a week that it took me to get it

Yeah... I try not to worry too much about it.. I'll just have to deal with it when the time comes.. Hopefully not soon though But I'll let you know.. It can be part of a study on how long a transmission will last on a new 5.0 when you don't know how to drive a manual transmission
Lol it will take a LOT to wreck a tranny, I was just messing with you, but the clutch on the other hand will need to be changed sooner.
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Lol it will take a LOT to wreck a tranny, I was just messing with you, but the clutch on the other hand will need to be changed sooner.
Haha, yeah... "I swear to you sir, I'm good at driving stick, this one just went bad! You have to believe me!" That's going to be me at the Ford dealership.. They're going to be like "do we look like we were born yesterday? WARRANTY DENIED on a new clutch!"
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Haha, yeah... "I swear to you sir, I'm good at driving stick, this one just went bad! You have to believe me!" That's going to be me at the Ford dealership.. They're going to be like "do we look like we were born yesterday? WARRANTY DENIED on a new clutch!"
The clutch is a "wearable" part just like tires and brake pads so that would not fall under your warranty. Just thought I would let you know that.
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The clutch is a "wearable" part just like tires and brake pads so that would not fall under your warranty. Just thought I would let you know that.
You sure about that, It's part of the drive line, but it does make sense.
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The clutch is a "wearable" part just like tires and brake pads so that would not fall under your warranty. Just thought I would let you know that.
Alrighty, thanks man.
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