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Old 09-22-2013, 11:55 AM   #1401
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Here's one of my latest dilemma's among other ones, one of my 2 best friends is kind of cocky, he's got more chances with women, his car is better, etc..

The funny thing is, he knows he can be cocky, and he admits to it. But, my other best friend and I ( both friends with this guy) were talking about him, and wondering if we should confront him when he does that stuff.

Most of the time we just let it go, as to avoid conflict, it's also not worth loosing friendship over, plus we all know he's completely full of himself.

Our concern is, should we continue to let it go, or call him out?
I've been told I can be full of myself but I'm more confident in me not arrogant about it. I'm always talkin ***** but never make people feel down or bad about themselves. If he is belittling people and tearing folks down that's not cool. There is nothing wrong with being proud if what you've work to get but don't make others feel bad because they don't have as much or what not. Pretty much if he doesn't respect others than you should say something not in an attacking way but just say " hey man, the way you were actin just then wasn't cool" if he is your friend he will take what you had to say to heart and change how he handles himself ... Hopefully, because life will fix that for him if he doesn't wise up
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^ dead on. I agree with that advice 100%.

There a difference I. Confident and cocky.
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I feel my life is destined to be alone, but the issue is I want to be just as long I end up being mega rich.
But I have this mental problem where I just don't believe in myself to be a complete success.
I always want to spend a lot of money on my car, 420, etc.
I feel I can't succeed in life because of my hard of hearing disability.

So I spend much money on my car as possible, so I can make it so darn fast so I can out run anything. Then I'll buy camera gopro, to create YouTube channel of all my high speeding in a pathetic hopes of attracting formula 1, NASCAR, etc to hire me and pay me a lot of money for my driving.

Pathetic much?
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I feel my life is destined to be alone, but the issue is I want to be just as long I end up being mega rich.
But I have this mental problem where I just don't believe in myself to be a complete success.
I always want to spend a lot of money on my car, 420, etc.
I feel I can't succeed in life because of my hard of hearing disability.

So I spend much money on my car as possible, so I can make it so darn fast so I can out run anything. Then I'll buy camera gopro, to create YouTube channel of all my high speeding in a pathetic hopes of attracting formula 1, NASCAR, etc to hire me and pay me a lot of money for my driving.

Pathetic much?
Not pathetic, hopeful!
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Not pathetic, hopeful!
Lets see if 4 more people agree to that.
If so. Then I'll just spend few more grand in my car, and get a gopro. To see what happens.
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Lets see if 4 more people agree to that.
If so. Then I'll just spend few more grand in my car, and get a gopro. To see what happens.
I've beat ya to it lol. Bought a GoPro then a boss lmao
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I've beat ya to it lol. Bought a GoPro then a boss lmao
But you're likely to be wuss out if you saw my YouTube I have planned.
But I want see how many out of 5 people would reject such idea.
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But I do agree
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But I do agree
2 out 5 now. Mm..
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But you're likely to be wuss out if you saw my YouTube I have planned. But I want see how many out of 5 people would reject such idea.
Umm why not go to driving school or buy a car and start on a circle track.. Sounds like your plans kinda wreak less and it might get you a record..
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Umm why not go to driving school or buy a car and start on a circle track.. Sounds like your plans kinda wreak less and it might get you a record..
All that **** costs money, much more for me seeing where I live. $60 per drive to nearest track
And it'll take long time to even get looked at.
And the **** I have to deal with people when they look at my hard of hearing instead of what I can do.
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Hey man, if that's what you want to do right now, go for it.
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Hey man, if that's what you want to do right now, go for it.
Just want see what my odds are to be judged by people for my actions on whenever it'll be worth it or not.
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She knows that nothing she says or do will hurt me except this ;(
Holy cow.. I feel for you man. I could never imagine my gf doing that to my cars, and she know that they r one of the most important things in my life, but being in a abusive relationship it really not worth it, personal experience here with my family, but not to do anything about it is also not good. She won't stop harassing you, it actually pretty common for men to be abused by women, but we don't know about it because a lot of them don't do anything because they are ashamed of it, but you came and told us about it and it's a good start. Now, you have to do something legally, I know you loved her, and it's hard when you love someone but then you have to bring the law force upon this person, I've been there before. But it's the right thing to do, be strong and go for it!
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Holy cow.. I feel for you man. I could never imagine my gf doing that to my cars, and she know that they r one of the most important things in my life, but being in a abusive relationship it really not worth it, personal experience here with my family, but not to do anything about it is also not good. She won't stop harassing you, it actually pretty common for men to be abused by women, but we don't know about it because a lot of them don't do anything because they are ashamed of it, but you came and told us about it and it's a good start. Now, you have to do something legally, I know you loved her, and it's hard when you love someone but then you have to bring the law force upon this person, I've been there before. But it's the right thing to do, be strong and go for it!
Btw, I believe she has a borderline personality disorder. People with this disorder have a tendency of over exaggerating their feelings, they are often moody, manipulative and don't trust other people. This is actually more common in women.
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Just want see what my odds are to be judged by people for my actions on whenever it'll be worth it or not.
Do it!
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I feel my life is destined to be alone, but the issue is I want to be just as long I end up being mega rich.
But I have this mental problem where I just don't believe in myself to be a complete success.
I always want to spend a lot of money on my car, 420, etc.
I feel I can't succeed in life because of my hard of hearing disability.

So I spend much money on my car as possible, so I can make it so darn fast so I can out run anything. Then I'll buy camera gopro, to create YouTube channel of all my high speeding in a pathetic hopes of attracting formula 1, NASCAR, etc to hire me and pay me a lot of money for my driving.

Pathetic much?
Driving really fast in a straight line isn't gonna attract NASCAR, or Formula 1 ... I think you gotta hit some curves and circle that track pretty fast. Don't look at your disability as a weakness it's really a strength to inspire people. You gotta understand that your not living your life for yourself, we are all "chosen" to be an example for somebody else that no matter what you lack you can still be successful. If you have the personality and charisma ***** you could have you TV show about modding cars if you can attract the attention of the right people.

"The only person that can stop you is you..."
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Driving really fast in a straight line isn't gonna attract NASCAR, or Formula 1 ... I think you gotta hit some curves and circle that track pretty fast. Don't look at your disability as a weakness it's really a strength to inspire people. You gotta understand that your not living your life for yourself, we are all "chosen" to be an example for somebody else that no matter what you lack you can still be successful. If you have the personality and charisma ***** you could have you TV show about modding cars if you can attract the attention of the right people.

"The only person that can stop you is you..."
I know a lot of nice curves that are pretty crazy to tackle.
How can I be a tv show if I can't talk very well? Lol... I b like "hold on lemme type what I'm saying on my iPhone note." Ok done come here camera look at the iPhone. So everyone can see what I say... Lol.. /:
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Thank you guys I'm really happy and grateful for your help and advice I've defiantly ran away from her and hope never to go back and it's been about 2 months since I've left her she's payed me 1000 dollars for damages and I'm talking to someone pretty cool now so life is good except for my liscence about to be suspended because I have more than 4 points but I'm getting that fixed with defensive driving classes
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Sorry for my absence. Life has been so busy I can't keep up.
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Sorry for my absence. Life has been so busy I can't keep up.
No worries man at least you try n thats all that matter
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Oh doc what to do quit school or quit work.. Just kidding I'm going to quit my job sadly . I'm a little behind in school I bombed my first test and I promised myself that I was going to try for a solid 4.0 or 3.5 GPA . I really want a scholarship.
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Oh doc what to do quit school or quit work.. Just kidding I'm going to quit my job sadly . I'm a little behind in school I bombed my first test and I promised myself that I was going to try for a solid 4.0 or 3.5 GPA . I really want a scholarship.
Damn bro it sucks it has to come to that
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Are you going to b be able to make the GA cruise this time?
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Damn bro it sucks it has to come to that
Yeah it does suck a little but I'm really not making any money by driving 80 miles round trip in heavy traffic. And being stressed out all the time.

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Are you going to b be able to make the GA cruise this time?
I might be able to I'm possibly headed to Nashville that weekend, but if that doesn't pan out then I'll go up to Helen, I love it up there.
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Oh doc what to do quit school or quit work.. Just kidding I'm going to quit my job sadly . I'm a little behind in school I bombed my first test and I promised myself that I was going to try for a solid 4.0 or 3.5 GPA . I really want a scholarship.
Good choice!! I hear ya!! I'm trying to maintain my 3.7 and work! It's hard.. And stressful... I hope it all works out for the best for you!!! I know you can get that 4.0!!
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Hannah is even giving u a thumb up lol. No matter what bro, school has to come first. The rest will fall in place.
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Hannah is even giving u a thumb up lol. No matter what bro, school has to come first. The rest will fall in place.
lol what's that suppose to me? Lol hahah
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lol what's that suppose to me? Lol hahah
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He thinks you're a guy

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Wow I thought It was pretty obvious ima girl ... Lmao haha
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Nooooo I was telling 99 u were giving him thumbs up. I know u r just a mean girl!
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Nooooo I was telling 99 u were giving him thumbs up. I know u r just a mean girl!
wth?! Lmao how am I a mean girl lol I think your heads to far under the hood lol that or you have been breathing too many fumes
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Doc I got a problem ... Probably the only person ie told this but I acknowledge that I'm an alcoholic
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Doc I got a problem ... Probably the only person ie told this but I acknowledge that I'm an alcoholic
Have you spoke to anyone about it or tried to control yourself or is it at the point were you can't control yourself
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