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Old 11-21-2013, 09:10 PM   #1716
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Umm just install a security camera lol their like 80 bucks and you can stream it to your phone .. .. There has to be someone that will room with you ..

But I'd say talk to her with out making any accusations .. First
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Umm just install a security camera lol their like 80 bucks and you can stream it to your phone .. .. There has to be someone that will room with you .. But I'd say talk to her with out making any accusations .. First
nah take her on jerry springer!
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nah take her on jerry springer! I was on there just the other day
ain't nothing but trash on that show.. Haha that's funny though lol
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My plan still stands lol another thing you could do is to tar her iPhone if she has one with find my iPhone and take a day off work and the go she what's she's doing that way ull find out for yourself one days work is worth knowing
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What about just talking it out?
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Old 11-21-2013, 09:15 PM   #1722
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Apparently that guy in green had a condition called "SexOmnia" where he would have sex with his 22year old virgin GFs friend and wake up nakey! Lol
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What about just talking it out?
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My plan still stands lol another thing you could do is to tar her iPhone if she has one with find my iPhone and take a day off work and the go she what's she's doing that way ull find out for yourself one days work is worth knowing
Will I get caught lol she has the 4s and I have the htc one so Idk if it will work

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I'm going to try that after work

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That to hard lol
She brought it up earlier today and having two jobs have kept me from seeing her so I'll see when I'm out
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Will I get caught lol she has the 4s and I have the htc one so Idk if it will work

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I'm going to try that after work

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She brought it up earlier today and having two jobs have kept me from seeing her so I'll see when I'm out
Dude, I went through the exact same story 25yrs ago. Right down to the 5yrs, a baby and needing a change of scenery. You know what's up, you don't need us to tell you. Don't spy unless you can handle the truth. I tapped our phone line with a recorder, ( precell phone days) I found out way more than I wanted to know. Start looking for a place to stay because it's coming. When you see her out smile, even when when you feel like crying, it cuts them to the bone. She will use the kid to play you like a puppet.Your getting ready to experience what no man should have to go through. Sorry for being blunt, just don't want ya being blind sided like I was. Best of luck brother.
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Dude, I went through the exact same story 25yrs ago. Right down to the 5yrs, a baby and needing a change of scenery. You know what's up, you don't need us to tell you. Don't spy unless you can handle the truth. I tapped our phone line with a recorder, ( precell phone days) I found out way more than I wanted to know. Start looking for a place to stay because it's coming. When you see her out smile, even when when you feel like crying, it cuts them to the bone. She will use the kid to play you like a puppet.Your getting ready to experience what no man should have to go through. Sorry for being blunt, just don't want ya being blind sided like I was. Best of luck brother.
This sucks thanks for the advice
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This sucks thanks for the advice
I emphasise with you. We can't make someone love us no matter how good we are to them. I've been through a lot in life. That had to be the hardest. Just love your child and don't let it be a pawn.
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Dude, I went through the exact same story 25yrs ago. Right down to the 5yrs, a baby and needing a change of scenery. You know what's up, you don't need us to tell you. Don't spy unless you can handle the truth. I tapped our phone line with a recorder, ( precell phone days) I found out way more than I wanted to know. Start looking for a place to stay because it's coming. When you see her out smile, even when when you feel like crying, it cuts them to the bone. She will use the kid to play you like a puppet.Your getting ready to experience what no man should have to go through. Sorry for being blunt, just don't want ya being blind sided like I was. Best of luck brother.
Damn that sucks bro :/ I feel for both of y'all
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What about just talking it out?
This is my vote. It's best to be honest and up front for your own dignity. Face it dude, from what I read, she is already looking elsewhere at the least. If she was still into you, she would not have accepted an expensive gift from another man. Ask her to be honest with you. If she has lost her feelings for you ask her to not hurt you anymore by cheating. Ask if you can be roommates until you can find an affordable place to live. If you want more help. Pm me. I've been in your same situation. Kid and all. It is going to suck a$$ for a while, but you will find a way to make it all work.

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Dude, I went through the exact same story 25yrs ago. Right down to the 5yrs, a baby and needing a change of scenery. You know what's up, you don't need us to tell you. Don't spy unless you can handle the truth. I tapped our phone line with a recorder, ( precell phone days) I found out way more than I wanted to know. Start looking for a place to stay because it's coming. When you see her out smile, even when when you feel like crying, it cuts them to the bone. She will use the kid to play you like a puppet.Your getting ready to experience what no man should have to go through. Sorry for being blunt, just don't want ya being blind sided like I was. Best of luck brother.
Was in the same boat three years ago. You are good for being blunt. OP does not deserve this treatment from a lady.
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Kid or not bud, you gotta be happy. Now that this has happened it will always be in the back of your mind, "what's going on?" It sucks that the poor little one has to go through it too, but it's life, it's not always easy. Like someone said, you cannot force someone to love you, no matter how many sweet things you do nor the amount of affection you give will change that persons feelings. Sorry brother. Best of luck! Hope all works out.

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Kid or not bud, you gotta be happy. Now that this has happened it will always be in the back of your mind, "what's going on?" It sucks that the poor little one has to go through it too, but it's life, it's not always easy. Like someone said, you cannot force someone to love you, no matter how many sweet things you do nor the amount of affection you give will change that persons feelings. Sorry brother. Best of luck! Hope all works out. Fly me out there, ill room with you! **** ohio! And reallyyyyyyyyyyyy Hannah!? Really........?
whattttt lol??
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Well thanks everyone. We talked it out and she said no that she hasn't cheated not even a thought ha! Also she said she cares for me but doesn't get "butterflies" in her stomach no more ? She also said she was paying the dude back for those shoes but Idk if it's true. So I mean we good I guess but yea it's always going to be in the back of my head.

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Kid or not bud, you gotta be happy. Now that this has happened it will always be in the back of your mind, "what's going on?" It sucks that the poor little one has to go through it too, but it's life, it's not always easy. Like someone said, you cannot force someone to love you, no matter how many sweet things you do nor the amount of affection you give will change that persons feelings. Sorry brother. Best of luck! Hope all works out.

Fly me out there, ill room with you! **** ohio!

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I'm glad u talked to her bro but it sounds like u walked away still with questions. Don't do that. You don't deserve to have to have anything stuck in the back of your mind. What does it mean, not to have butterflies anymore?
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I'm glad u talked to her bro but it sounds like u walked away still with questions. Don't do that. You don't deserve to have to have anything stuck in the back of your mind. What does it mean, not to have butterflies anymore?
I asked her that too and she couldn't give a good answer. I'm guessing more like a thrill cause she works and I work all day maybe that's keeping us apart too much and we can't really have a day to ourselves cause of job schedules or babysitter. Also I mean I can ask 21 questions but it's easy to lie so Idk.
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We all have to work bro and we all have kids. Just stinks to see u in that situation. Whatever u do. Stand ur ground. Set ur breaking point and stick to it. Let it be known and stick to ur guns. Happiness is defined by u. U deserve happiness. Don't walk away still with questions. I'm not promoting arguments, keep it cool and casual conversation.
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Hmm seems I've walked in on an interesting conversation.

Just of curiosity have you thought about hiring a Private Investigator?
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Hmm seems I've walked in on an interesting conversation.

Just of curiosity have you thought about hiring a Private Investigator?
Idk about paying to see if she's cheating or not but another conversation happened and I guess the end is coming soon. I really didn't want this to happen and it's worse that she don't show no emotion and I'm all sad about it.
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Idk about paying to see if she's cheating or not but another conversation happened and I guess the end is coming soon. I really didn't want this to happen and it's worse that she don't show no emotion and I'm all sad about it.
Sorry to hear that bro :-/

Something that my brother once told me that always stuck:

"The person with the most power in the relationship is the one that cares the least"

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I know you have a kid, hopefully your not married. Marriage really complicates thing's. Establish paternity, you just never know. Without paternity she can make your life hell just to see your kid.
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Yeah bro, this is not your fault.

Can I tell u something whiteout it being or sounding odd or mean? It sounds like you are pretty passive. Like if someone just says something, u just let it go or don't push issues. Sometimes in life bro, u have to push the issue. Sometimes u have to fight for u and u have to defend urself. By that I mean, step up, say, "I wanna know what the f*** is going on. I deserve to know. This is my baby. I want answers. If she don't give them, take ur baby and go.
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I know you have a kid, hopefully your not married. Marriage really complicates thing's. Establish paternity, you just never know. Without paternity she can make your life hell just to see your kid.
Keep your head up brother.
No thank god I'm not but I was about to pop the question early next year. And most likely she can have my lil girl most of the time since I work all day but I would still like to see her as much as I can.

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Yeah bro, this is not your fault.

Can I tell u something whiteout it being or sounding odd or mean? It sounds like you are pretty passive. Like if someone just says something, u just let it go or don't push issues. Sometimes in life bro, u have to push the issue. Sometimes u have to fight for u and u have to defend urself. By that I mean, step up, say, "I wanna know what the f*** is going on. I deserve to know. This is my baby. I want answers. If she don't give them, take ur baby and go.
Yeah I guess I am but maybe there is just no hope anymore. Maybe it will be best to just walk away
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Saw the ex with some dude she was driving by and stoped to say hello and some dude was in her car
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Live and let live bro
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That really blows yo
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Yea I'm still happy AF i left here sea crazy i hope she's diffrent with that guy
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She says, don't be a stranger. So I ain't, send her a message here and there. Nothing like simple replies. What is it that you wants ma'am¿ does she want meh to chase her¿
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Women are crazy bro...
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