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Old 11-25-2013, 05:22 PM   #1
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Girls with Kids

Quick topic ,

How do you single younger guys feel about a girl who is Hot, pretty cool, funny but you find out she has a kid or baby.

What's your reactions?
Red flag ?
Keep it cool?
Still go on ?
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I've hooked up with plenty of girls with kids. They're usually ho'z if they're sleeping with me anyways


Wouldn't date one though
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There's this sexy girl she's like 22 I'm 20
We met whatever got her number ended up finding out she has a kid whatever , but she wants to " cuddle and watch movies " tonight

I just don't know what to do lol,

I've been around with like 1 or 2 chicks with kids and they pretty much got me drunk and slept with me.

I rarely see women anymore because all I do is go to car meets, hang out with my boys, work in a shop full of men, I don't go out to party's or clubs.. Kinda waiting until I'm 21
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There's this sexy girl she's like 22 I'm 20 We met whatever got her number ended up finding out she has a kid whatever , but she wants to " cuddle and watch movies " tonight I just don't know what to do lol, I've been around with like 1 or 2 chicks with kids and they pretty much got me drunk and slept with me. I rarely see women anymore because all I do is go to car meets, hang out with my boys, work in a shop full of men, I don't go out to party's or clubs.. Kinda waiting until I'm 21
When you turn 21 it ain't nothing special, just not another birthday to ever look forward to again hahaha..go for it man, I would, especially if she seems like an awesome woman. Who cares if she has a child, that ain't nothing to stress over.
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When you turn 21 it ain't nothing special, just not another birthday to ever look forward to again hahaha..go for it man, I would, especially if she seems like an awesome woman. Who cares if she has a child, that ain't nothing to stress over.
Dude 21 = I can finally go to 21+ older clubs , strip club, bars , we have festia here in town a big week of partying lol but you have to be 21 ,
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Dude 21 = I can finally go to 21+ older clubs , strip club, bars , we have festia here in town a big week of partying lol but you have to be 21 ,
Same here, I live on the Jersey Shore, literally 5 min from the giant party scene, it gets old quick.
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**** what these guys say. If you're gonna try to be with a girl you're gonna have to like her kid or else it'll cause problems.

I was really close to dating a friend of mine that has a kid. She's 22 and I was 21. I love her kid like my own. But I moved across country.


A girl that has a kid is should not have the kid as a red flag. if you're not ready for a kid then simply don't **** around with her. She has enough on her plate.

That being said... Getting to know her shouldn't be a problem. Take your time.
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There's nothing I could do at 21 that I wasn't already doing since I was a teenager -__-
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**** what these guys say. If you're gonna try to be with a girl you're gonna have to like her kid or else it'll cause problems. I was really close to dating a friend of mine that has a kid. She's 22 and I was 21. I love her kid like my own. But I moved across country. A girl that has a kid is should not have the kid as a red flag. if you're not ready for a kid then simply don't **** around with her. She has enough on her plate. That being said... Getting to know her shouldn't be a problem. Take your time.
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There's this sexy girl she's like 22 I'm 20
We met whatever got her number ended up finding out she has a kid whatever , but she wants to " cuddle and watch movies " tonight

I just don't know what to do lol,

I've been around with like 1 or 2 chicks with kids and they pretty much got me drunk and slept with me.

I rarely see women anymore because all I do is go to car meets, hang out with my boys, work in a shop full of men, I don't go out to party's or clubs.. Kinda waiting until I'm 21
What you do is wrap it before you tap it, (if you do) you now know she's fertile.
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There's nothing I could do at 21 that I wasn't already doing since I was a teenager -__-
+183848832, in all honesty, I went WAYYYY to hard from like 15-20, by the time I was 21 I was pretty much over it all lol
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21 is just a number. More legal to be out an about then doing it younger. Kool said it perfectly

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Plus if you like her enough down the road wont be a problem with a kiddo
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Meh, not for me. Enjoy the sloppy seconds...
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Meh, not for me. Enjoy the sloppy seconds...
Lmao for real? So I guess you've only been with virgins huh?
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I'm seeing a girl with kids right now. We were just doing whatevs for a while and now we see each other more often. She knows I have no intention of moving in or becoming a daddy. We just live one day at a time. It does kinda help that she has awesome kids though. I wasn't a kid person until I met them. Whether I stay with her or not, I still changed my perspective about a lot of things. I kicked and scream the whole way though. Before her, I was single and bouncing thru way too many girls. It wasn't a healthy lifestyle. Hooking up is fun, but it involved a lot of partying, drinking, spending a lot of money, getting sick, getting out of shape, smoking lol. I'm taking my ships team diver course relatively soon and I wasn't going to be in shape in time for it had I not stopped binge drinking this summer. Anyways, all that too say... If you like spending time with her, do it. Take it one day at a time. Make your feelings clear to her. If she's been a single mom for a while, she should understand and be supportive. If you want more later, than that'll be an option and if you find that it basically stumped the growth of your relationship, than no skin off your back because you didn't make any promises or lead her the wrong way. I realize this is maybe further than you'd like to hear, but I'm 24 and this was kinda new to me. I don't want to admit I'm getting older, but soon it's gonna get harder and harder to meet girls my age without kids. I can always just date 19 years, but I gotta tell ya ; the21-25 year olds are young enough to party and know how to do it right .
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Lmao for real? So I guess you've only been with virgins huh?
Hey, you figured me out.

The only kids I want to deal with are my own.
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Meh, not for me. Enjoy the sloppy seconds...
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I used to talk to a girl in high school everyday. I thought she was sexy af. After awhile I asked for her number and she told me she has 3 kids and might be getting engaged....what? 3 kids? Engaged? Hell naw I got out that real fast. I really don't want kids but if I did the kid would have to be my own, not from someone else.

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I've been around with like 1 or 2 chicks with kids and they pretty much got me drunk and slept with me.
Wait so you've been raped? Lol
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So if you guys had a kid and the mother passed away, and you were a single dad, you'd never bother trying to meet someone ever again because who wants to deal with someone else's kid?
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So if you guys had a kid and the mother passed away, and you were a single dad, you'd never bother trying to meet someone ever again because who wants to deal with someone else's kid?
Just takes the right person...that person is not me.

I've made it to my age without having any children. It really isn't that hard...
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Hey, you figured me out.

The only kids I want to deal with are my own.
That's how I roll too
Also, if your dealing with a chick with a kid your also going to have to deal with the kids biological father, who is probably a dbag.
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So if you guys had a kid and the mother passed away, and you were a single dad, you'd never bother trying to meet someone ever again because who wants to deal with someone else's kid?
girls love single dads but not all guy love single girls.. Double standard. Yup I went there
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It really isn't that hard...
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So if you guys had a kid and the mother passed away, and you were a single dad, you'd never bother trying to meet someone ever again because who wants to deal with someone else's kid?
Now we are looking at it from their pov?
That's a whole other debate.
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girls love single dads but not all guy love single girls.. Double standard. Yup I went there
*single mothers not. Single girls lol
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So if you guys had a kid and the mother passed away, and you were a single dad, you'd never bother trying to meet someone ever again because who wants to deal with someone else's kid?
Itd be kinda hard to move on if it was someone you really loved...
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Lol no. Wife and I just haven't been ready for a child so we haven't had one.
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Now we are looking at it from their pov? That's a whole other debate.
Lol no but to say you wouldn't bother ever getting into a relationship with someone who has a child, than put yourself in there position, and completey have a new outlook on that thought, than that's just a bit hypocritical IMO
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I met this girl that was hot and cool, and down to earth, and she had a kid....... I saw it through because I was really into this girl and the kid was 2yrs old. To make a long story short, she became my wife and he became my son. He just graduated and and we just had our 15 yr anniversary!
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So if you guys had a kid and the mother passed away, and you were a single dad, you'd never bother trying to meet someone ever again because who wants to deal with someone else's kid?
that's a 180° argument my guestimation is 2 out of 7 girls don't mind kids rather seem to go for it more. (So as I see it) a guy is more likey to say no to a girl with a kid than vise versus

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*single mothers not. Single girls lol
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Lol no but to say you wouldn't bother ever getting into a relationship with someone who has a child, than put yourself in there position, and completey have a new outlook on that thought, than that's just a bit hypocritical IMO
How is that hypocritical¿
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How is that hypocritical¿
All people are hypocrites.

If you say your not..

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