Not a big question..

wiarumas · **Not a big question..**

i started talkin to a girl kinda. thank god its after vday so i dont have to buy her anything haha. but anyways, we met like a week ago and we have been talkin every day lately for the last hmm.. 5 days or so. today she called me honey a few times such as "hey honey" and later on the answering machine "hey honey i just wanted to call blah blah blah." and lastly she was like.. "goodnight honey." i just said goodnight but i thought to myself afterwards.. should i have said something like that in return even though its really early? cuz i dont feel that i will probably for a while yet haha it just doesnt seem appropriate. i dunno.. just kinda weirded me out. any thoughts?

WhiteStang99 · 02-17-2005, 01:04 AM

nah, I always feel weird using pet names and stuff. Baby is about as much as I ever say.

**Brent** · 02-17-2005, 01:05 AM

That annoys me honestly... I mean its been a week... settle down lol

lowflyn · 02-17-2005, 01:05 AM

Hm....not something to ask on a forum really..but I say go with whatever feels comfy. Don't want this to turn into that thread on 3.hate if any of you know what I'm talking about with the guy and him "discovering" girls....

**Brent** · 02-17-2005, 01:06 AM


Quote: Originally Posted by lowflyn Hm....not something to ask on a forum really..but I say go with whatever feels comfy. Don't want this to turn into that thread on 3.hate if any of you know what I'm talking about with the guy and him "discovering" girls....

lol don't see that happening here

WhiteStang99 · 02-17-2005, 01:12 AM

nah.

wiarumas · 02-17-2005, 01:47 AM

i asked her.. "you know my birthday is coming up.. are you goin to get me anything?" she replied.. "you wont even be home that weekend so when would i give you it". then i replied.. "you dont got to give me anything i was just kiddin.. i'll settle for a handjob." her response was.. "omg i cant believe u just said that to me. im goin to bed now goodnight darlin." haha... im so smooth with the words.

**Brent** · 02-17-2005, 01:49 AM

red herring · 02-17-2005, 02:18 AM

Depends on what kind of guy you are...if you want the hand job then why even wait

. If you want a relationship then tell her what you told us and talk it over; you'll know how to handle it.

wiarumas · 02-17-2005, 02:27 AM

im not really lookin for any advice but thanks anyways. i just thought its a weird experience that a lot of guys here can relate to. i dont know if i want a relationship or not, but it seems she is moving SO fast its incredible. i mean.. honey, darlin, sweetie.. its only a week into KNOWING her.. i dont even know her last name.

red herring · 02-17-2005, 02:35 AM


Quote: Originally Posted by wiarumas im not really lookin for any advice but thanks anyways. i just thought its a weird experience that a lot of guys here can relate to. i dont know if i want a relationship or not, but it seems she is moving SO fast its incredible. i mean.. honey, darlin, sweetie.. its only a week into KNOWING her.. i dont even know her last name.

A friend of mine that I work with didn't know his girlfriends last name until I told him, hahaha

**meteorachick** · 02-17-2005, 08:45 AM

i had a guy do that to me once...it was like 2 days after we started hanging out, not dating or anything, and i was just kinda weirded out as well

BUT then i realized that he did that to all of his girl friends, so i was less weirded out because it seemed to be part of his personality...now i've known him for 2 years, and he calls me nothing but hun lol

Danger Dude · 09:25 AM

OK you might be in for a ride with this one. Typically girls or guys that start off with pet names this quick are somewhat controlling people. She already has it in her mind you are exclusively hers!!!!! This is also typical of younger people's control. In the Adult world having sex with a control person usually is the deal maker. My suggestion is be up front with her. Ask her what she believes your relation to be and if she seems remotely controlling RUN FAST RUN FAR AND DONT LOOK BACK!!!!

Do not get involved with people with emotional baggage, controlling nature, or overboard Jealousy no matter how good the sex OR YOU WILL BE TRAPPED.

I spent a year of Highschool with one of these types of girls because she was hot and had the most incredible ass. She also allowed me unrestricted access to her body. But she was living hell. I could not do anything without her. If she saw me talking to a girl in the hallway she would run up and embarrass me and the other person. At the beginning I though that was a trade off for unrestricted sex BUT SOON I REALIZED I WAS WRONG AND THE CHAINS STARTED TIGHTNING. As I pulled away she got more desperate. I stopped having sex with her and she would call all hours of the night, cussed my parents and even drove to my house thinking I had a girl at my house that ended up being my cousin and she cussed her out. It was a nightmare. Finally I had to do something. I set her up. I called her parents and told them everything later that night she called me and started ranting that she was coming over to kill me. I went across the street to talk to my parents neighbor The Sheriff of the city I lived in. Told him what was going on. He walked over to my house and came in and discussed with my parents all of our options on what to do with this crazy girl.

Well my plan fell right into place as she pulled up about 20 mins later and started screaming out from the street she was going to kill me. I opened the door and like a crazed zombies from "28 days later" started running towards me. It looked like she had a large kitchen knife in her hand and as she got near my door the Sheriff steped out with his hand on his pistol and told her to freeze. Well to make a long story short I saw her taken away in a deputy's car and that was the end of her in my life. 3 days later she was enrolled in another school BY GOD and her parents called me and appologized to me and my family and hoped we would not press charges. Evidently she had done this before being this was her 4th Highschool in 2 years. Oh this also happened in 1977-78. So people were wacked even then BY GOD!!!!!

WhiteStang99 · 02-17-2005, 09:54 AM

wow.... was it worth it Corey?

STEVE · 02-17-2005, 10:07 AM

Hit It!

Danger Dude · 02-17-2005, 10:10 AM


Quote: Originally Posted by WhiteStang99 wow.... was it worth it Corey?

NO!!!! For a couple of months it was fun having that kind of sex while you are 16 but looking back I should have RUN FAST RUN FAR AND NOT LOOKED BACK

Danger Dude · 02-17-2005, 10:11 AM


Quote: Originally Posted by 232stang Hit It!

You would hit a 80 year old women if you got the chance Raisin boy !!!!

MUAHAHHAHAHAHA

**meteorachick** · 02-17-2005, 10:21 AM


Quote: Originally Posted by Danger Dude You would hit a 80 year old women if you got the chance Raisin boy !!!! MUAHAHHAHAHAHA