have you ever changed the transmission fluid? Try getting a full flush and see if that helps. You might have something moving in there that isnt. While under there, either yourself or your mechanic, check the rear seal (where the driveshaft goes into the tranny) to make sure it's not leaking.
I'm also moving this to Suspension and Drivetrain since this is a drivetrain issue
I'm also moving this to Suspension and Drivetrain since this is a drivetrain issue