That's way too low of a gear ratio for a daily driver. Your stock gears are 3.55's and jumping to 4.10's are a really bad idea for a daily driver. 3.73's will give you that nice acceleration and will keep you within manageable rpm's on the highway.
Def. go with the 4"10s. I know guys who drive over 30 miles to work and are running 430s. You'll be fine with 410's gas mileage drop some, but the fun you will gain will take care of that. And for an extra kick throw some drag radials on the back. Good Luck